I'm a girl. And I like to look at lesbian pictures of girls and things like that. I don't think girls are hot though, I just want to sleep with them and all that, its very confusing for me. Can someone help me? How do I know if I'm gay? I think guys are hot, but I want to sleep with girls... What's wrong with me??? Please help! -I looked at some questions like this and people weren't serious... please be serious...-
2007-01-26 07:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are a girl. Gay, lesbian, hetero - only words. The important is to be happy. Today you are liking a boy? Wonderfull. And tomorrow? Wait. Carpe Diem.
2007-01-26 07:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Apolo 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Jen if you want to sleep with girls the chances are very good that your gay. I'm a gay male and I find beautiful women hot but I don't want to sleep with them.For me that makes me gay. You don't need a label just be your self and see were your feelings take you. Remember your what ever god has made you so your definitely OK and how your suppose to be. Good luck and enjoy any sexual experiences that you have.Peace....
2007-01-26 15:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by michael l 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lesbian pictures are often rather erotic, so maybe it's just that...if you think guys are hot, but not girls, I'm betting you're straight. You are just getting to know your own sexuality. There's a lot of imagery out there that can be rather intriguing to anyone, straight or gay. Imagine making out with a girl, and if the thought grosses you out, you're straight.
2007-01-26 15:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Adrian Wapkaplett 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way, in reverse. I think girls can be hot and cute and nice to be around, and pictures of naked centerfolds turn me on. But I only want to sleep (literally and figuratively) with guys, "hot" or not. People are complex creatures, each with our own wants and needs and desires. Be with who you want to be with, don't worry so much about confining, artificial labels.
2007-01-26 15:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats confusing. Why would you want to sleep with girls if you don't think they are hot or attractive.... even straight girls think other girls are hot (without being attracted to them...
If you are attracted to girls & not guys = lesbian
If you are attracted to guys & not girls = straight
If you are attracted to girls & guys = bisexual
your situation seems kind of confusing. Maybe you just have a fetish or a curiousity for girls.
Just ask yourself this:
If you see a girl in real life (i.e. not online photos) are you attracted to her?
If you see a guy in real life (i.e. not online photos) are you attracted to him?
2007-01-26 15:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just confused, you don't want to sleep with girls. You only find guys attractive.
2007-01-26 15:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are probably gay. If you want to sleep with a member of the same sex, you are a homosexual.
Miss Misunders is telling you who to be. That's not right. You need to do some serious soul searching and figure it out for yourself. I hope that you find that you aren't homosexual, but that's probably not the case.
2007-01-26 15:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i understand what your saying i mean u might be just bi curious meaning you would like to see how it feels with a women and how a woman makes you feel besides a man i understand because i mean ive thought about in my life time but when u are around people that are against this then it makes you change your mind about how you feel its nothing wrong with you its normal u might not be gay because you are still attracted to guys so u are just bi curious
2007-01-26 15:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by No Other L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with 'The Searcher'--gay, straight, lesbian--those are all labels. Does it really matter how you identify yourself in terms of those words? Simply go with the flow, but remember to remain honest with whomever you're playing with so she or he can determine if they want to play as well.
2007-01-26 15:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to sleep with women your a lesbian. Just as simple as that.
2007-01-26 15:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋