Hello everyone, this is my first time asking on here so it may sound kind of weird. I came home from college over the holidays, and brought my laptop that i use all the time with me. Well that was the first mistake. My computer genius older brother managed to find a lot of porn I have on my computer. a lot of it is shemale or 'Transgender' pornography with titles like "chicks with *****", "dolls with balls", etc. after he found this out he hasnt stopped making fun of me and calling me a ***** and all these hurtful comments. but i argue with him, that im not gay, because i dont like males. in fact, i dont like males or females, just transgendered individuals. he got so annoyed with me that he brought it up during a family dinner and we had an argument whether i was gay or not, but i told them 'i dont like men im not gay', and i left the table without even eating that night because i was about to cry. my question is, am i gay even if im not attracted to males, just shemales/transgenders.
2007-01-26 07:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by myassinabag 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are probably bisexual. You don't have an emotional attraction to males, but you like their sex organs. Actually a large percentage of otherwise straight males are attracted to shemales for that reason, but none want to have to explain the attraction or make it public.
I'd advise you to just lie and say that psychologists believe there is an exotic nature to shemales that fools straight men into thinking they are within the boundaries of female sensuality.
That's merely a rationalization, but most such so-called expert opinions on the subject are just that.
2007-01-26 08:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Grist 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What a question. Let's see gay men like male bodies, but more profound is gay men fall in love with other men. It means gay men like men not only for their body but for their feelings, and their way of thinking. What do you prefer to have a life living with a woman, a man, a transgender. Maybe answering this question will help you. Luck.
2007-01-30 07:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pato FV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm assuming you're a guy so i visit respond to your question in this way. in case you ask a transexual what gender they are better than probable they are going to respond 'woman'. A transexual believes lots that they are the choice intercourse trapped interior the incorrect physique that they are keen to wade by way of hormones, critism, or maybe surgical treatment to be the intercourse they sense that they are. For me it incredibly is adequate information that they are trully despite intercourse they suspect they are. you're without postpone as long as you enjoy intercourse with a woman - it doesnt depend if the guy became born a woman or had to have surgical treatment to grow to be a woman - a vagina belongs to a girl and as long as that's what turns you on then you definately are without postpone.
2016-11-01 08:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not make you gay...
are you attracted to girls and shemales/transgenders?
or only shemale/transgenders?
I'm sad that your brother brought it up during dinner with your family, that must have been rather embarrasing.
2007-01-26 08:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the loose definitions i have seen about sexual orientation are related to gender, not biological sex.. since you are attracted to males who are "presenting" themselves to the world in the woman/girl gender role, technically, you are attracted to the opposite gender..
but most people tend to judge others based on biological sex, not gender..
bottom line, if you are attracted to trannsexual Male-2-females, and if you are comfortable with the fact that some may actually still have a penis, then that's great.. go for them, love them,
don't worry about labelling yourself.. technically, you could be called a "t-bird" as this is a term used to describe men who admire transsexuals..
pansexual could also be a term (but this implies attraction to males, females, and transgendered)
but Pansexual is a term i like to use, as most people don't know what it means, and they won't judge you accordingly..
2007-01-26 09:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not much I can add to Grist's answer, pretty much says it perfectly.
I don't think you are gay either. Gay men are specifically attracted to the masculinity of males, which you obviously aren't. Bisexual leaning towards liking females more, in my opinion as well.
2007-01-26 08:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by dead_elves 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well,i dont think it says your gay because I love pretty cds, transexuals and tranvestites...so email me and we can talk some day...you never know whats in your brothers closet....hugs
2007-01-26 09:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Libbi N 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what that makes you, but it doesn't matter.
If I was in your shoes, I'd have said "If it brings you joy to call me gay, feel free. Doesn't change who and what I am."
2007-01-26 08:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Miakoda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. you are human and you are attracted to transgendered women. why do you need to lable yourself? you are who you are be proud.
2007-01-29 16:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bisexual
2007-01-28 17:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋