i just found out that my best friend is 2 months pregnant. and me and my fiancee have been trying for 7 months and nothing. and im happy for her and everything, but im also jealous.
no mean answers please.
2007-01-26 06:19:17 · 8 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's only natyral since you have been trying for 7 months. Try taking a break from trying and just enjoy your partner and it might happen.
2007-01-26 06:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you rushing? You're not even married yet. Of course you would feel jealous..that's a normal reaction when someone so easily gets what you so desparately want. Have you spoken to your doc about getting pregnant? It could be a simple matter of timing...your jealousy will fade after initial reaction. Don't worry too much.
2007-01-26 15:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by lma0814 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable for you to feel jealous because you and your fiance (I'm assuming it's a guy :) ) can't have kids.
Because she's your best friend, you need to stay by her side and put up with her through her pregnancy.
You could also consider adoption. There are many wonderful babies in adoption agencies that would love a home to call their own.
2007-01-26 14:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural that u will feel slightly jealous of her and it doesnt mean that your are cruel or dont love her as a friend...i guess its just that u've been trying for seven months...just be really supportive of her right now and dont give up...keep trying...and if that doesnt work go to ur physician to find out whats goin on
2007-01-26 14:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course you are!
its great that you are happy for her, but the resentment is for sure normal since you have been trying to get pregnant for some time now
if you feel your best friend is understanding, tell her you are so happy for her, you're just having a hard time because you have been trying. its completely normal to feel that way though. good luck to you, i hope you find you and yours expecting soon.. i will wish for u! hang in there!
2007-01-26 14:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda is OK for you to have them feelings because you have been trying for so long and she maybe haven't been trying for long as you have been but just support her and be happy for her that's all you can do and keep yo head up it will happen when the time is right :)
2007-01-26 14:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by lil, mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's not in God's plans for you to be a mother right now. we've tried for 3 years before our son was born, now he's 7 yrs. old. be patient and good things will come. good luck.
Mom of B & D
2007-01-26 14:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.
hm.
you should not be jealous of your best friend.
you should be happy for her. =]
...and dont worry about yourself.
ull get a baby sooner or later haha =]
and ull be happy.
every thing takes time.
just bea patient. (:
good luck.
2007-01-26 14:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by love<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋