she never ever talks to me unless she needs a ride or a place to crash, we have been bffs for 9 years and now shes blowing me off for her bf shes only known for a week its not that i care it thats she never talks to me unless she needs a ride and i really dont know what to do shes bothering me what to do??
2007-01-26 06:02:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just suddenly get real busy so you cant take her anywhere.
2007-01-26 06:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she asks you for something, take the opportunity to explain to her how this makes you feel. She may not even realized she's doing this...
You're not the only bf to ever go through this. Hormones are dangerous and can break up friendships. Don't allow this to happen to yours. Don't be confrontational and be sure to tell her how happy you are that she cares so much for her bf (you don't want her to think you're jealous of her.)
Talking is the only way to work this out.
2007-01-26 15:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by KL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a little kid having a new toy, she'll hang out with her for a while but in the end yall will still be friends. Just call her up and see if she wants to go somewhere. If she doesn't hang out with you then every time she asks for a ride then tell her you've gotta be somewhere and can't do it, make up something. She's blowing you off, why can't you do the same to her.
2007-01-26 14:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by taco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't last long. She's just doing that becuase he's a 'new toy'. Not that you're a toy, or anything. She just needs to sort out what's important for her. Give her a little while, and she'll come back to you. You are her best friend, be patient.
2007-01-26 14:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Pope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is not a true friend and that is really nice that you have been cool with her after this i think you should tell her maybe that way she realize what shes doing wrong if she doesn't you need to get a new bf
2007-01-26 14:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When love enters your life you seam to lose the world around you. This man is not replacing you it is a new addition to her life, IF she marrys this man someday he will be the most important person in her life. You are not any less important , you are just important is different ways
Be happy for her.
2007-01-26 14:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't b friends with her anymore she really doesn't care a bout u if she uses u all the time
2007-01-26 17:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Margaret C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget bout her,dont let her know its bothering u,just tell her anytime shes calls u dat ure very occupied.she will soon get the message.
2007-01-26 14:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Don.P de'Marco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If she gets mad then thats that. If you tell her how you're felling and she gets offended, let her be offended. It's her problem not yours.
2007-01-26 14:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by singer4him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Maybe you guys can work it out.
2007-01-26 14:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋