She believe's gay or bisexuals are a sin in god eye's but, i hate lieing to her but i don't want her to disown me my mom know's and she is ok with it but my grandma an d certain people i know is strongly against it. I can't lie to them anymore do I take the chance and tell them or do i just keep it to myself. I had a girlfriend but me and her broke up because my family didn't know we were dating. She was the love of my life the reason why my family don't believe in people being bisexual and gay is because the are religious and they say God made man and woman to be together not woman and womanand man or man and man or woman and woman. she is driving me crazy. Please help me
2007-01-26 05:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by Nica 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't label yourself. Look at the cup as half full. You are attracted to people of the opposite sex. Why tell her more?
2007-01-26 06:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Joe L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-01 08:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't wanna sound like a Priest here but, my personal views about it are that... why did God make men and women? Why not only one sex? Or why not 2 sexes in the same body? The way I conclude it is that same sexes are not appropriate for having sexual relationships, or anything that would lead to something like that. I know what your problem is. Your problem is that you need love. That's it. By love I don't mean the love of your Granma, Mama or Daddy. Please do not get offended. That is my view point only. Have a great weekend!
2007-01-26 06:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell your Grandmother. I never have understood everyone's need to announce to the world their sexual orientation. What makes anyone think people really care? The only thing that would make me interested in anyone's orientation is if I wanted to make love with them. I understand this is family, but, other than your immediate family (mother, father, brothers, sisters) why bother? She's older and has her own views on things and you're not going to change them. It will only put an unnecessary strain on your relationship.
2007-01-26 05:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not financially dependant on your grandmother, I don't think it matters. (If you are dependant, IT MATTERS. You don't want to get kicked out of the house at 16, IT HAPPENS.)
Just understand she might disown you and treat you badly afterward. Or, maybe she'll be shocked into awareness of LGBT issues and become sympathetic because she's now personally involved through a family member. There's no way to predict how she'll act.
2007-01-26 05:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by girl with a gun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ******* grandma so its none of her business. Unless you just feel compelled to hash out or have her dole advice to you. There really is no point.
2007-01-26 06:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't until I'm out of the house.
Unless you get into a committed relationship with someone of your own gender, I don't consider it something pressing.
2007-01-26 05:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to lie to her - but you don't have to tell her either. When I came out at 19 I decided not to tell my Papaw Hunt because I realized that basically it was something he did not need to know and it would not effect him NOT to know. They do not need to know about your sex life.
2007-01-26 05:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want the love of someone who would disown you for BEING BORN a certain way? i say no. if she cant accept you for who you are, then who needs her?
2007-01-26 05:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by tire_tracks_tar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell her. It would just cause tension between you two and maybe even with your parents. Hang in there.
2007-01-26 05:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by LittleMiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋