im about to have sex tomaur with my girlfriend and im afraid ill make her pregnant.i need some tips and precautions about how not to get her pregenant and have safe sex...i really love dis girl and i dont want to ruin her life. just tell me wat to do of not getting my sperm anywhere near or indies her vagina during and after sex
2007-01-26 05:14:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Put a rubber on!!! Or make her take birth control.
2007-01-26 05:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Specter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about not having sex with her. That would work the best. But if its ABSOLUTELY neccesary, which since you are a guy i am guessing that it is, use a spermicidal condom and make sure she is on birth control.
Also if you do happen to get some sperm inside her get the Emergency contraception pill "the morning after" pill. You can take it up to 72 hours later i think. But it does cost money so you should just forget about the whole thing and wait to have sex when you are ready because you are OBVIOUSLY not.
2007-01-26 05:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you don't know how to have safe sex, you shouldn't be having sex at all.
The answer is simple. A condom. If you're still feeling wary, use spermicide in the condom. If she, for some reason, is also even more worried, she can ask a doctor about birth control.
2007-01-26 05:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by PinkDagger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use a condom but they are always not foolproof so you can also ask her to take the Pill. Thats usually more effective but a condom is still needed to prevent the exchange of fluids so you both won't get infected by STDs.
2007-01-30 02:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by A A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. That is the only guarantee. stop treating women as sex objects. Keep it in you pants till you are married, or atleast old enough to support a family just incase...
be smart, it is not worth it. the only difference between humans and animals is that humans have a brain that they could use to control urges, such as the one you are experiencing
2007-01-26 17:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by ih8dumbasses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no way to have safe sex. Condoms aren't all that effective. They offer little to no protection from most STDs, and incomplete protection from pregnancy. If you're not ready to have a kid, DON'T HAVE SEX.
2007-01-26 05:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by stickymongoose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... you should wear a condom - put it on before she gets naked. She should use a spermicide gel. You should pull out before you reach your climax, and not let her touch you or the condom after that. Your penis should be no-where near her again until after you've showered.
Pretty much 100% guaranteed no pregnancy.
2007-01-26 05:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a condom is a good idea, you should both sit and talk about this before jumping in so to speak. look into more safe sex options for both of you to practice.
2007-01-26 05:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms not only protect against getting her pregnant(99%), but they also protect you both from transferring any STDs to each other....Have fun enjoy
2007-01-26 05:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by memnoch3333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out failure rates on the various methods.
Typical failure rates on condoms are 15%. "Perfect usage" is 2%. I suggest you research what those terms mean and factor that into your decision.
I expect that people thumbing me down can't handle facts. Look them up.
2007-01-26 05:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Uncle Remus 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋