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How can I be me when my personality changes? I am compelled to refer to myself as we because it often feels like I am more than one entity.

2007-01-26 05:14:41 · 10 answers · asked by Immortal Cordova 6 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

I do not mean split personalities. I do not black out and become someone else. I mean there will be times when I just want to sit and read the bible say, and then there are times when I feel very carnal. My inconsistency is the only thing consistent about me.

2007-01-26 05:26:07 · update #1

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Personality does not need to be constant. Think of yourself like a graphic equaliser - sometimes the treble is turned up high, sometimes the bass - we all have character traits which change according to our moods, our location, who we are talking to, etc.

A street looks entirely different in the dark than it does in daylight, but it is still the same single street. There is no need to think of it as a multiple - its the same entity in a different condition. The same as you.

2007-01-26 05:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by the_lipsiot 7 · 0 0

Consistency is not required to have an identity. Paul mentions this dual nature in man in Romans chapter 7. It is something all humans struggle with - the desire to do good while at the same time yielding to that which is not good. Helping your "good" side to win the struggle requires discipline. We are complex creatures with many sides to the equation - good luck on figuring yourself out!

2007-01-30 03:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by wd 5 · 0 0

I have a couple personalities too but I don't refer to them as "we". I believe it is the Gemini in me that makes me think I have different moods and sometimes feels like I'm a completely different person. I also believe that I am shaped and have my own unique identity because of who I am...a Gemini.

I don't know if you are talking about "split personalities" sorry I don't know the correct medical term and if you are I am unable to help you but I hope my answer above gave you a bit of insight.

2007-01-26 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, i think consistency is not required to have an identity because the personality or character of one individual may change depending on the situation and environment he is currently in. But we have some traits or attitude which are really unchangeable because that is really who we are regardless of the situation or environment we are in to...


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2007-01-26 13:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Your changing personality clearly defines who YOU really are. Just don't think about it. Remember that personality IS inconsistent. Remember that toy you used to like? Or that comic book collection that you don't want now?

It depends on YOU and YOU alone. Your personality is YOU. Your identity is YOU. Don't fret about not being YOU because you are YOU.

2007-01-26 13:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by The Impresario 2 · 0 0

Consistency "required" to have an identity?

Absolutely not. You could be - consciously or UNconsciously - a complete emotional, psychological, spiritual chameleon.

I would think that such a personality would be somewhat taxing to those around him/her, but it is possible, of course.

2007-01-26 15:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your identity is the some of all your parts. People are diverse and dimensional. Sometimes you want chocolate pudding and other times you want steak. Relish all that you are. We are day and night, cloudy, sunny, stormy and calm. Accept yourself.

2007-01-26 20:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Mabe you have split personalities See a DR .Mental illness comes in many forms seek help if you really want it.

2007-01-26 13:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0 0

Inconsistency can be a personality trait in of itself.

2007-01-26 13:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0 0

Not really, but it's usually present due to the bodies natural will to feel comfortable.

2007-01-26 15:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0 0

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