2007-01-26 05:11:17 · 19 answers · asked by ronald w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
man up dude. why are you on here talkin about her talkin about your marriage.? you both obviously have an issue that you need to discuss alone in private. be the bigger person and bring it up to her. you start the conversation. right off the bat you will gain that much more respect for just doing that. trust me. try it. maybe you wont catch her online anymore. hope this helped
2007-01-26 05:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by ian e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something you need to ask your wife about. Seems to me that she's looking for someone to talk to and get different opinions from. Maybe you guys should start seeing a counselor. Going to God for marital problems is great, but it also helps to get some godly counsel. Good luck!
2007-01-26 05:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be online talking about the marriage, she should be talking to you and she should be praying to save her marriage. I think it's okay if she shares details of the marriage with a close friend or family member who she can really trust, however, you should be made aware of all problems first.
2007-01-26 05:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you and her could sit down and take your marriage to God in prayer together.
You also want to be glad she is not at Church taking this to the women at Church. Nuf said.
2007-01-26 05:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because God speaks in different ways.. and yes sometimes its through the voices of others..
2007-01-26 05:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe b/c she is impatience and need to have an answer right away. i understand what you are sayin but maybe she just wanted to get several ideas from different people. don't take it personal b/c it is not like the people online knows her or you either=)
2007-01-26 05:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are u taking it to god? there's nothing wrong with some outside help too. maybe she's telling people how great the marriage is also why not ask her.
2007-01-26 18:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by bustnloose_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she can get advice online.
I understand that you may be steeped in traditional marriage BUT
ask yourself why you referred to it as MY marriage instead of OUR marriage.
Perhaps your wife feels compelled to talk to people who will answer back with some specific answers.
God does not really talk back.
2007-01-26 05:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because God isn't giving her the insant gratification and false sense of support that she's looking for.
2007-01-26 05:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she needs you to open up and talk to her about things that are going on she may have the feeling of needing to be heard
2007-01-26 05:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋