There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and so i told him I would let him know but he will text me, and tell me that he wants to hook me up, and money is no problem, so I booked the free session, but my question is why is he being so pushy
2007-01-26 05:07:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's being pushy because it works. He's a pushy guy who hustles to get both fresh women and fresh clients. If he knows you can't afford him, he'll probably want to have sex with you.
If he was looking for a girlfriend (which he's not) he would ask you on a date, ask you to dinner, ask you to a movie...not offer you a "free session".
Get smart and cancel your "freebie"
2007-01-26 05:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you even like him?
Well, for him being friendly and talking to you in the gym is part of his job... customer service. If he's offering free sessions, he may be wanting to keep you as a client.. that is once you're able to afford it. But go with your gut. If you think he's flirting with you and all the signs are there, then you have to make the first move and see how he responds to that. You may get your answer then.
2007-01-26 05:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by tejada91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing about this is that I remember you asked this question about three weeks ago. The answer is simple, he wants to give you a free session, only this session is outside of the gym.
2007-01-26 05:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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anyways, he sounds kind of pushy. I do not know if he thinks you will get snatched up, or he wants to rape you at this alone session! He might be obsessed, I'd worry what the hell is going on to! You have to prepare for the worst situation.
2007-01-26 05:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a bit pushy but in my opinion he has a crush on you.If you don't have a problem with that i mean if you have a crush on him too then you should tell him something!But be careful because he might not be as he looks like and somehow uses you.You know what i mean.Be careful!!
2007-01-26 06:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Irene K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really like you, but was using his job to get closer to you. But since you are broke that didn't work so he's trying a new tactic. If you like him go for it, since he's a trainer he should look good. Maybe he can show you some more ways to burn calories (if you know what I mean) : - )
2007-01-26 05:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by shorty2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pushy, but it looks like he's got a little crush on u. Ask him to lunch, brunch or breakfast. But keep ur gaurd up, because he could be playing u.
2007-01-26 05:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a go getter yeah do the free session youll know what he wants in a matter of time.
2007-01-26 05:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds a little over bearing, don't have your training sessions alone unless you want s e x from him
2007-01-26 05:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋