A man cannot be stolen from a woman, he has to be willing to leave his wife. So if your husband leaves you for another woman it's because you aren't making him happy. I opened this topic,b ecause I wondered why people accuse Angelina Jolie of being a homewrecker. Brad Pitt wrecked his own home.
2007-01-26 05:07:00 · 31 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i believe whenever anyone is involved with a married man that they are stealing something that belongs to another. yes he made the choice, but she made it all possible, by going for it, by pulling on his heartstrings, and giving him ultimatums. marriages aren't without problems, not ever, if a man is having troubles, and someone else comes along, promises them the world, strokes their ego's, makes them feel wonderful, now who are they going to pick? if these women would just stay out of the marriage until he were divorced many marriages wouldn't have ended. yes he could have said no, but she could have not gotten involved, and than he might have come back to the wife and worked out the marriage, but she gives him a place to stay, lots of sex, makes him feel as if she is the answer to the problems, so he leaves his marriage. both are to blame here, the mistress and husband.
2007-01-26 08:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that a man can only be "stolen" if he wants to be, but in no way does that mean that the woman did not keep him happy. Some men are creeps, and Brad Pitt is a perfect example of a creep! Beautiful, but a creep none the less...and Angelina is a *****!
2007-01-26 05:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are we also going to say that a **** is not a **** because a guy is willing to sleep with her?
There is no husband stealer. There are people who aren't committed. However, there are people who don't mind taking other people's happiness away. They are called selfish.
It is no one's job to make another happy. Brad or Angelina or anyone else. The phrase husband stealer is just the words of a magazine.
People make or break their marriage every day with every action they choose.
2007-01-26 05:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by kishoti 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think why everyone is accusing her is because she persued a man she knew was taken not so much for wrecking the home.
It's right that a man is the one to make the choice but is the other woman not partly to blame, if she knows that the man is in a relationship already.
2007-01-26 06:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by unclear_tag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your for the most part correct.. u cant steal something that doesnt want to be stolen.. but i dont agree about the "making him happy" part, for most men it has nothing to do with not being happy, its more of the "excitement, newness, need to conquer" ect..and not an emotional need.. where with most women that cheat usually its because their lacking some kind of emotional need from their husband that they "new guy" is fufilling..
You can wait on ur man hand and foot, give ur all, giving 110% of yourself, and if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat..plain and simple, its about his character, his lack of morals and values and his lack of being able to stand by a promise he made the day he got married.. he promised to love, honor, cherish ect..he promised to "forsake all others", he promised in good times and bad, till death do they part.. so he's the one that chooses not to maintain a promise he made..
Now where i see the other woman at fault is, if she knows he's married.. she should have enough respect for herself, for others and above all "god".. not to even "tempt" a married man.. by her knowing that he is married.. she is just as guilty of committing adultery.. i doubt sincerely that if it was the other woman in the place of the wife, that she'd appreciate another woman tempting her husband.. i dont know of any women that would actually find that a likeable quality in another woman.. but ultimately its his responsibility Not to breach his marriage vows..
2007-01-26 05:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No i don't believe in husband stealer's but I thank being a woman you shouldn't want a man if he is married although I don't think Angelia stole brad she said she wouldn't want a man if he was married that would make him less of a man they got together after the fact
2007-01-26 05:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by icon5654 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%. Nobody "steals" anybody. On a side note, Brad Pitt must be an idiot too......to leave Jennifer Anniston....for Angelina Jolie???? He ought to have his head examined.....right after his EYE exam!!
2007-01-26 05:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. I feel that women have been getting the shaft on this issue for many years. It takes two to tango. If a man don't want out of a marriage, then he will not leave for anyone or any reason.
2007-01-26 05:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by simple_man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right they cant steal him....but them being in the picture sure doesnt help the situation at home...it only serves to confuse an already rocky relationship....you would think that people would have more respect for others than to get between a amn and wife....leave em alone...let them try to work it out...if they cant they see whomever they want after their divorce
2007-01-26 05:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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