My sister gave me a $1,000 and I don't want to share it with him but he knows that I have it?
2007-01-26 04:57:01 · 46 answers · asked by two boyz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, you sound like a great wife...
Go buy a gun with it and shoot yourself in the head...
If you were a good wife, you wouldn't be lying to your husband about anything.
2007-01-26 05:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you let him find out? Well I would tell him a little lie not a all out "Baby I lost the cash" BullSh*t talk. I would take half of the cash and start a savings account for your kids and buy stuff with the other half and leave it in you car and gradually bring it in the house. When I was going through my shoe thing, that's what I had to do. Then all you have to do is tell him that you started an account for your children. That's their college fund. True and not true.....and you still stay the good wife.
2007-01-26 05:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by reneemj76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you tell a lie about the money to your husband,he already knows it .If you don't want to share it with any one, that is your business, it is your personal money,if I were you I would put that in a saving account or cd, so use it for what ever I want. How would you feel if your husband got a $1,000.00 and you know that he has it, he ask the Answers for advice to tell a GOOD LIE to his wife for he does not want to share it with her,even to pay electric bill or buy food......
2007-01-26 05:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to your husband if you two as a couple can't share finances with each other that is going to create problems. Just tell him the truth.
2007-01-26 05:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie. Just tell him your sister gave it to you and you don't want to share it with him.
2007-01-26 05:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever I get $ as a gift or unexpectedly (we harvest the money tree out back) I usually give some of it to my hubby, and I'm usually upfront about how much I'm giving him. Not always though. It's a gift to you, so really, if you want it, it shouldn't be an issue, but if you all have bills to pay, maybe what you should consider is to take a portion and pay towards the bills, give him a couple hundred and tell him to treat himself, a gift from you, and then keep the remainder for yourself.
2007-01-26 05:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont share it and then when you ask your husband for money to go shopping and he says no don't get mad. I thought marriage was supposed to be a partnership? Isn't it "what's mine is yours and whats yours is mine"? It sounds like you are operating on "what's mine is mine and what's your is mine". Not a very successful attitude if you want to remain married for long. Keep the money. I feel sorry for your husband though that he has to sleep every night with someone so selfish.
2007-01-26 05:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't ask just keep quiet. If he ask, just tell him the truth, but if he demand the money from you, depends on the purposes. If it's for good cause, you decide. If it's bad causes, tell him NO, and say you need to save it for raining day. You should use it wisely because this is from yr dear sis, it's hard earn money ok. I really envy you have sure a sis.
2007-01-26 05:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to LIE to your husband???? Don't even get me started!! If you have to lie to get your point across, you need to spend that $1000 on a good divorce lawyer. Your marriage is over!!
2007-01-26 05:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be selfish, this will just cause issues in the marriage. At least give him part of it!! I always share with My wife, usually 50/50, unless I need a little more for something, or She does, but we discuss these things, and work them out together.
2007-01-26 05:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Icefire 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want a good lie? Tell him that you love him... Cause if you're looking and plotting to lie to him, you certainly do not love him. That'd be the grandest lie of all! He might even believe you!
2007-01-26 05:11:39 · answer #11 · answered by Guvo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋