2007-01-26 04:39:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I know two wrongs don't make it right!
2007-01-26 04:40:58 · update #1
its not okay when men cheat, who told you that? Its not okay when anyone cheats. Its an awful hurt and someone intentionally inflicting pain on their spouse/partner/friend. To cheat as a retaliation just puts you in the same category, "loser" Never try to do one up on someone who wronged you, because its WRONG. Work it out, if you can't move on to a relationship that you will want, need and work hard for, without cheating
2007-01-26 04:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation, not enough info. I do know that no matter who cheats first they are horrible. But if you love each other than it is a hurt that is unexplainable. My husband slept with another woman when we were split. We had agreed not to see anyone but he did any way. I was never so hurt in ALL my life. We ended up working things out and that was 2 yr ago. If anything comes up about it like seeing a pic of the other girl, I get upset obviously. He dosen't understand. So I tell him if I were to sleep with another man how would he feel? He thinks I will just to get back at him. But there is no way I ever would because I would never put Anyone through that heart ache. So my opinion is that if you do it because they did you are both WAY wrong. But as far as anyone being more wrong I wouldn't say that. But I couldn't see hurting my partner the way I was hurt. Good Luck
2007-01-26 06:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly maximum folk say that once a guy cheats or has many women individuals, their basically being adult males or gamers yet while a woman cheats, their considered sluts. that's between the excuses adult males see it in a different way yet while a guy truly likes or loves you, he will supply you yet another risk to make it paintings yet each guy is different. it is not ok while adult males cheat, it is not ok while all of us cheats yet thats why that's probable different.
2016-11-27 20:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by pariasca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said it's ok to cheat? Oh yeah, my cheating ex-wife.
Folks who cheat will almost without exception, tell you that what they did is ok.
That's not a male or female thing, it's a character issue.
So don't blame a gender. It makes you look no different from someone who blames races or nationalities.
Blame those who engage in bad behavior, regardless of race, gender, social class, etc.
2007-01-26 04:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men don't want to look like a fool when women cheat.
2007-01-26 04:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Palyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you make some incorrect assumptions.
[1] When men cheat, it is NOT "okay." Period.
[2] When you "do it back", you aren't "no good" - you are as childish, immature, and selfish as the idiot who cheated on you, but you aren't "no good".
2007-01-26 05:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating by men is NOT okay...it is just that women can't seem to just say "goodbye". I sometimes wonder if it is because women are afraid to be on their own, especially with children.
2007-01-26 05:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to be the fools. It is not ok though for either person to cheat.
2007-01-26 04:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you hear that cheating for men was OK ??
Men cheating is not OK...
2007-01-26 04:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you got this misconception. It isn't ok for either to cheat.
2007-01-26 04:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋