am i WRONG for DOING THIS to her?

Question

Is this wrong????
my friend is 12 (i'm 15) and she isn;t a virgin anymore. she lost it w/a 13 yr old. the guy says he didn't use her but they were never going out, they were "friends with benifits". she is a lil' obssesed with him, not alot just a lil'. i tell her to stop cause after they had sex she only saw him one time after that (in july) then didn't See him until school. after that they went back to school and he is bak w/his ex' now. i tell her to stop but she says she can't control her feelings. sometimes she cries when she sees them 2-gether. and she says she LOVES him.
am i wrong trying to stop her 4rm her feelings???

Answer 1

If the guy that had sex with her doesn't pay attention to her it means that he used her for his gain.You aren't wrong at all.I would do the same thing if i were you.If you are good friends you are right that you want to warn her.I know that she may love him but try to convince her that her feelings may be wrong.I used to fancy this boy and at first he looked interested but when he found out that i fancied him he didn't even spoke to me.So I'm trying to forget him no matter how hard it is.If her guy is using her you have to as a good friend to warn her.Good Luck!!