I find that women are far too much trouble and that I can get just as much gratification from self pleasure, besides which most of them dont satisfy me in the bedroom anyway. Does this make me gay?
2007-01-26 04:30:23 · 13 answers · asked by WerX 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're gay WerX. Don't fight the feeling.
2007-01-26 04:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by jkarp 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. You would be gay if you were attracted to men. You didnt say anything about an attraction towards the same sex, so im leaning towards you are more asexual. Meaning you dont find pleasure in either sex. It's actually more common than people think. You also may have just not met the "Right" woman for you. IT also could be something medical going on. So you have other options besides being gay.
2007-01-26 04:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question! You are so right in reference to women, sex and society. From the beginning of time it was that a man was allowed those freedoms to do what they wanted to do, but females were'nt supposed to be their equal with that! they got labelled as a waste of time, and marriage had to be to some cold hypocrite, who was the Town cryer, and corny, this defined them as decent. Then somewhere along the way you'll see their husbands negotiating a deal with a "hoe" outside of his decent wife house. I don't think a woman can compete with men in that world, but it's the same image men will earn if they do what is not accepted in Society, and worst, because a female has lots of chances for marriage under the worst of circumstances, but nobody wants a skirt chaser they're afraid of a hit and run relationship. Once a cheater always a cheater there's no cure for that, they keep running the streets instead of the house, until retirement, sometimes not even then.
2016-05-24 02:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something like this doesn't mean your gay necessarily, it just means that right now in your life your relationship (s) should not revolve around the bedroom but around finding pleasure with being in their presence. And when it comes down to it, self pleasure is always going to be satisfying. No worries
2007-01-26 04:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are either one of two things... You either have not found the right female, or maybe you are gay. Just asking if your gay to the entire internet community means you have thought about it, and you have your doubts about being straight. Maybe just try it with another guy, see what happens, if you like it, well then, there ya have it! If you don't, you just don't need to find the right person, but good luck!
2007-01-26 04:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, do u like men? are u attracted to men? maybe u just haven't found the right woman. but, trust me, us women WHO ARE into men, most of the men don't satisfy us either, but that doesn't mean we are gay. Or at least some of them are not gay, or into women. U really need to ask yourself, "Do I like men, am I attracted to them?" If u can answer these questions, u have ur answer.
2007-01-26 04:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just dont pleasure THEM in the bedroom....do they really not pleasure YOU? you didnt say you liked men....so that would not make you gay! I think there is a reason we are able to pleasure ourselves.....we know exactly what we want!! therefor...our best sex partner is.....OURSELVES!!
;-)
2007-01-26 05:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by adriboho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we know our bodies ourselves better than anyone else does. of course, physically, masturbation will be the best physical experience anyone can have.
what makes sex with a partner special is the emotional connection. the bond, the love, the trust, the respect, the communication... if you don't have any of that, you might as well stick to masturbating.
don't just have sex with a stranger.. heck, they don't know what you like in bed.. love takes time. you really gotta spend time talking.. tell your partner what you like sexually. that's how it can be great physically..
i don't think this necessarily means you are gay.. you just don't know how to communicate your wants and needs to your partner in bed..
2007-01-26 06:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds more like you're asexual. Most asexuals find sex, except for masturbation, to be "not worth it".
Unless you find yourself attracted to members of your own gender, then being gay isn't an issue.
2007-01-26 04:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Only if you are sexually attracted to men.
Don't confuse the lack of attraction or lack of desire to follow through with women with being gay.
2007-01-26 06:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋