I have a child with another man who i was with for 5 years. i have only had 2 relationships and this is #2.i can't take this from him he always thinks i am cheating or i have, and he denies this child sometimes but then other times he is fine... im stressed out and i am a high risk pregnancy so stress is not what i need... what would you do?
2007-01-26 04:28:19 · 4 answers · asked by yum_nummy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd say he is really not wanting to be a father to your baby, and is making up excuses on how to get out of it.
2007-01-26 04:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye to him until he has grown up.He is not ready to be a Father!He should go to birth prep classes with you he is a lucky man ,he just has not realized it yet!Don't let him stress you out,it may take him a while to get used to it.But how does he think you feel,He should be supporting you in a positive way,you have enough to cope with as it is.Did he want children?Was the baby planned ?It was probably a shock ,he will be a first time father ,whist you are a second time Mother ,how did you feel the first time?It will probably take him a while to catch you up!Keep talking together I think you can work it out!
2007-01-26 12:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's the one in the wrong .. you may need to leave him before you loose the baby .. your the only one that can make your mind up on to leave or to stay and be treated like crap..
2007-01-30 05:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by GEN-GEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure, he might be the one messing around
2007-01-26 13:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋