How do you prevent it
2007-01-26 04:28:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i haven't but my husband almost has before. if she cares for you she will work with you on this, but, it's important that you recognize the problem is on your end. be up front with each other!
2007-01-26 04:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes lots of times. Jealousy comes from a belief in yourself that you are not good enough to keep anyone interested in you. Do you really believe that? I don't but I tend to act on it, so its more of acknowledging the feelings and trying not to act on them. Just b/c you think something doesn't mean you have to express it. My experience is jealousy will ruin things if you keep nagging the other person with it. If you keep it inside as much as possible, then at least you won't be affecting the other person with it. You'll still be torturing yourself but at least you won't ruin the relationship. As far as the way you think, you just have to get more confidence in yourself. There's obviously a reason someone would pick you in the first place so you just need to embrace your good qualities, work on what you can with your bad qualities and forget the rest. Life is too short to be unhappy and there are enough things in this world to hold you back, don't let yourself be one of them!
2007-01-26 12:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy comes from a lack of self confidence whether you want to look at it that way or not. You have to keep yourself grounded and know that if a person wants to walk out of your life you can not stop them (without going to jail). And if a person can just walk out of your life so quickly that person was not meant for you anyway. Prevent yourself from seeing others as better than you and focus on being the best "you" you can be.
2007-01-26 12:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get jealous. I outgrew it with experience. That doesn't mean I haven't been hurt because I got dumped, but what can you do if they want somebody else?
You give it your best shot, you hope things work out, and if they don't... you sit around and think about it, grieve, figure out why that relationship wasn't good for you so that you know what is good for you, and then you move on.
2007-01-26 12:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋