Here is how my hubby handles this.....because I think it is just a male thing, middle of the night, early morning....and I'll be SOUND ASLEEP. He will start tickling me, very slowly and lightly on my back, arm, or where ever there is skin. He wakes me up so gently that by the time I realize I'm awake, I also realize that I'm turned on.....and it usually results in some hot sex....HOWEVER, sometimes I'm just damn grumpy that he's woken me up from a sound sleep, but it goes his way often enough that he continues every now and then to try.....LOL
2007-01-26 03:46:44
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answered by reddevilbloodymary 6
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Chalk it up to testostrone overload. Get his a good book on foreplay and tell him when you're asleep, leave you alone if he wants some good stuff in the morning. Everyone deserves a break and a good nights sleep. Foreplay starts way before bedtime...like before he goes to work. Women want to be wooed. Maybe he needs to talk to an older man? Godloveya.
2007-01-26 11:42:04
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answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7
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A man's sex drive is highest in the early morning hours, so I think you should just chalk it up to the fact that his hormones are kicking in big time at that point, and if you expect him to deal with your hormones at certain times and not hold it against you, I think you should show why women are the "fairer" sex by doing the same. :-) And anyway, sometimes it is just fun to just do it like a couple of neanderthals, go with it every once in a while, you might enjoy it!
2007-01-26 11:38:43
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answered by Princess~C 3
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I used to have the same problem from my husband. Let him know that this not only does not turn you on in anyway, it actually turns you off. If he really wants to be intimate during the night let him know what you really want, or at least the way to approach you that you are comfortable with. Or, you could do like I did and act like you were dreaming that someone was touching you that had no right to do so and you slap him in his face. While I am not a violent person I blamed it on a dream and since he has never wanted to grope me.
2007-01-26 11:39:07
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answered by tryin4freedom 3
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If you have been honest with him and given him all of the information and he STILL continues to disrespect your wishes, I would stop sleeping in the same bed. If he won't move than you go sleep elsewhere. I think that might get the message across.
2007-01-26 11:57:34
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answered by Ande 4
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as soon as he gropes you, grope him right back and give him a b l o w j o b. You will make him the happiest man on the face of the earth
2007-01-26 12:31:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Invest in an "Amish Bed Board" - problem solved!
I agree - it is NOT a turn on. I'd let him know that if he is in the mood, he has to tell you BEFORE your head hits the pillow - otherwise the answer will always be "No".
2007-01-26 11:38:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Some women enjoy middle of the night sex.... believe it or not, some enjoy waking up to sex...
So you want us to tell you how to tell your husband how to give up on something that he might want to enjoy...
Maybe you ought to change your attitude, maybe his touch could be though of as pleasurable by you.
I know if my wife wanted to "grope" me in the night, I'd be thrilled to death.
And you call males stupid.
2007-01-26 12:16:38
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answered by JRSK007 3
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do him the same way and see if he likes being groped while hes trying to sleep
2007-01-26 11:41:25
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answered by Ms Scarlet 4
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sorry all men do that. is that just groping you or is he humping you @ss too.I do this to my wife but i can honestly say most of the time i don't even realize i'm doing it,it's like i'm sleep groping,get used to it or sleep in different beds.
2007-01-26 11:48:11
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answered by Anonymous
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