Okay well i love my boyfriend alot. we were together for 5 months and everything. we broke up 3 days ago because i couldnt stand the remarks he saids to me and that we always are fighting now. everything used to be perfect. it was only supose to be a break to see what i wanted but yesterday he called me and said he is effing done waiting. but hes not mad but we still tell eachother wel love eachother and were friends
what should i do
2007-01-26 03:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Justinee X3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think that's dumb 5mths isn't long enough to get to know someone intimately enough to know what they are really like and men are on there best behavior during the first 5-12mths of a relationship then you start to see who they really are. you cant love someone in a 5mth relationship it may seem like you do but just wait and see who they really are.. ****believe me they change iv been with my man for 5 years and after the 1st year i really got to know who he was as a person his different moods, dumb remarks etc but hey that was when we were 16 now at 21 we are engaged and have a baby on the way, don't sweat the small things!!!!!**** don't make him wait tho because if he really has feelings for you then this is hurting him having to take a break.. how would u feel if he told you he wanted a break and you sat there and had to wait for him you would probably break it off to. just try and be in his shoes for a change and figure out how hes feeling now.
2007-01-26 03:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if a man keeps on telling a woman remarks even after she said she doesn't like, he's not worth your time. It means that he just doesn't care for you. However, if he still keeps claiming his love for you, you might be simply too different to go on together. Try to figure out the main reasons why you fight and maybe give each other more space, don't be stick together:)
2007-01-26 03:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Aatami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he really loved you he wouldn't be "effing done" after only 3 days.
5 months isn't that long to build a strong, intimate relationship. You'll look back and realize that it wasn't love at all.
2007-01-26 03:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him because he was talking you down, and you didn't appreciate it. 5 months isn't that long of a time, so I doubt you REALLY love eachother.But remember you dumped him for a reason. If you want to be back together, lay down some rules. Tell him you wont stand for the way he has talked to you, and it needs to stop, now.
2007-01-26 03:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think you should give him a chance....everyone deserves at least 3 chances. but thats just my opinion. but then again he did say he was done waiting and that sounds to me like hes saying you're not worth waiting for. but i dont know...i still think you should give him a chance, cuz you guys are adoreable together. and all you other people need to STFU. 5 months is a long enough time to say i love you...wtf. at least shes not like some people who say i love you after...what? 2 weeks? anyways, you should go for it. give him another chance and if he screws it up, move on.
2007-01-26 04:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by blahhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit throwing the word "love" around. It cheapens it for everyone else. When you are older, you will look back and laugh at your naivety. Focus on school and yourself. There will be plenty of time for guys when you are old enough to have an adult relationship.
2007-01-26 03:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be satisfied being friends for now. if he cared for you he wouldn't have been making the remarks to you. Look for someone more considerate of what you want and not what he wants.
2007-01-26 03:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your already fighting a lot, look out for your future.
It sucks, but it sounds to me like you all are not a match. At first most relations are awesome, but when they get sour quickly, it is usually best to just stop it before it gets too bad.
2007-01-26 03:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys r sooo cute 2gether
2007-01-26 03:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by ~*MiSS MiLLER*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋