He wanted to wear maids dress and be my sissy maid. so i got him a dress he looks cute!!!.never thought i would say that. Now i want to make sure he does what i want (pictures as blackmail). Ill never really show them to anyone but just let him think i will.
2007-01-26 02:53:06 · 35 answers · asked by Tim O's wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well ive gotten some interesting answers. let me tell you guy,s somethings first we have been happily married over 20 yrs and he has always like to crossdress ,but only when i wasnt home. all other times he's a great father(children gone) , husband and lover ,so i would do what i could to make him happy. he has told me he likes me to be in charge sometimes and askl him to do things like fix me a bath or do the dishes, yes he is a little too kinky for me sometimes and if i ask him to not go to far he will respect me and we will talk about it . he like s the threat of being seen (blackmail pics) I told him ill let him keep the pics we take
2007-01-26 03:33:07 · update #1
you are bad, and i like the idea i am going to try that with my hubby too****
2007-01-26 02:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sissy Husband Pics
2016-11-07 09:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool that the two of you are that free w/one another. However, taking pictures for the purpose of blackmail (whether seriously or otherwise) may end up taking something that was done light heartedly and freely and turning it into something that carries resentment. Which in turn could actually sabotage YOU in that he will not feel that he can trust you enough to be comfortable around you and could cause some tension...so much for having fun then!!!
2007-01-26 03:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off for now, you sound new to this type of sex play and roles and assumptions are new. He is willing and offered himself to you at probably his deepest level. the idea of blackmail takes away his control so he has to do things with out a sense of guilt ( its not his doing ,he was forced) The whole idea is to give up controll to another (preferably loving but firm) like a parental role. Start with small punishments like a small spanking for not cleaning properly. Some people like a secret word to stop. I have to clean the house now so good luck.
2007-01-29 01:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by ponderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing in the BDSM world doesn't include blackmail. And the more comfortable you guys become with the roles the less embarassed you will be with them. Therefore showing pictures of him may not ever be a issue...He may even become very proud of his submissive role and want the whole world to know. Then in that case you can use the pics as a reward that he can have to post on his lil. sissy maid profile.
2007-01-26 03:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Kinky, if that's what you both enjoy, then go for it. I don't think I would go as far as to make him think I would black mail him though. This can give just cause for kinky play to turn into dangerous play. Think about it. Would you want the constant fear that your husband,or, any one else for that matter, might black mail you at any time? Have fun you two.
2007-01-26 03:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two have worked yourselves into quite a lather! He likes to dress up like a woman, you want to take pictures to make him feel like even more of a dirty little sissy, and you want to PRETEND that you are going to show people unless he does what you tell him to make him feel like even more of a bytch? WOW! So what's next after this Mistress???
2007-01-26 03:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the bigger question here is WHY does your husband dress up like a sissy maid. Appears that he has OTHER ISSUES.
2007-01-26 03:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take pictures of him, but not to blackmail him. Keep the photos so he can see how looks as your maid.
2007-01-27 22:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats just mean. the fact the you are thinking about using them as blackmail makes you a bad person
2007-01-26 02:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Uppy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG props to you for getting him in that dress, lol, dang still trying to get my baby to put on a leather thong for fun, take the pics, heehee. LoL you can always pay a friend of yours to mention those "lovely" pics of him on myspace while giggling, and if he asks you what she mean say "nothing, nothing, i dont know what she's talking about"
2007-01-26 03:00:09 · answer #11 · answered by SN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋