My elderly mom is in the hopital,and I am leaving soon to visit her.I'm so sad.
Thank you.
2007-01-26 02:49:47 · 29 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,
Friend, Cheer Up, You should feel good that you are going to see her, you should feel proud that your mother needs you when she is not well, u know wat,once i went to a tour away from my city,after 2 days i got a call from my home that my grandpa is in hospital,i immediately went back and went to hospital only to find that my grandpa was in comma,i sat there for whole 2 days and nights to talk to him,to say to him that dnt wry,i have come back to take care of you,but he never woke up
so friend, go straight to you mother and say to her yes here i am to take care of you,n she will surely b fine soon,and dnt forget to say that how much you love her
all the best and take care and keep smiling always
2007-01-26 03:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by ur frnd 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful People
Beautiful People, There are so few
One has to reason why
They seem to come and go so fast
Too soon they wilt and die
Their gentleness and kindness
Way more than one expects
Their uncompromising Friendship
So hard to accept
They stir up deep emotions
We hide so no one sees
But what we see, is all the things
We know we'd like to be
They shower us with their virtues
Things money just can't buy
They turn and leave us wondering
With thoughts that say Goodbye
Like the flowers that bloom around us
They seem but a fleeting thing
It's up to us to recognize
The goodness that they bring
A sorrow overwhelms us
We know they soon will part
But the memories that they leave us
We'll carry in our hearts
-aaw-
2007-01-26 03:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by nalla 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that your Mom has to be in the hospital. Be glad that she is getting expert care. Be thankful that she is alive for you to hold her hand and tell her how much you love her, how grateful that you are for her loving you, and that you are okay in your life. If she is elderly, she IS approaching her crossing over at some point. When she nears it...now or in a few years, she will have so much peace of mind if she knows that her gifts here to you have been received and that you are safe and well. Treasure the time you have with her. Express your love and gratitude and if you have siblings give them the gift of showing their love for her while you all still have her. If this is not her time to go, okay. Regardless, this gift of love will help her healing and strengthen her. My thoughts and prayers will be with you today!
2007-01-26 02:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult watching as our parents grow old and pass away. Tell her how much you love her and keep in mind that even after she is gone, the memories that you have will always be with you. If your Mom has a relationship with God, she and you have little reason to be sad. Rejoice and celebrate her life instead of mourning her leaving. Just be there for her and you will have no regrets.
2007-01-26 02:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind I'll say prayer for you both. You make her day by visiting, and don't forget to say the most important you can ( I love U ). Share some memories with her and enjoy each other and the time you have. On top of all this remember you are loved.
2007-01-26 03:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by ally 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that our parents do get oder and pass away and all we can do is to let them know they are loved while we can. If you are religous, remember that death is necessary for our spiritual growth. You didn't say how serious this is but if indeed it is terminal and she knows it, start now to gather things to remember her by and assemble them so that when she does go you can establish a free memorial for her at http://www.memory-of.com and let her help you put together the memorial. I hope and pray that it isn't and that you have a good visit!!
2007-01-26 03:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father, I ask You to bless my friends, relatives and those that I care
deeply for, who are reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of
Your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit at
this very moment. Where there is pain, give them Your peace and mercy.
Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace.
Where there is need, I ask you to fulfill their needs. Bless their homes,
families, finances, their goings and their comings. In Jesus' precious
name. Amen.
2007-01-26 06:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by sadiebabe81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Morning Beautiful,
Keep your face to the sunshine...and remember you are and will always be an inspiration to your family, friends. and neighbors.
If your are religious/spiritual make sure to pray for strength. It goes a long way.
Things will come out okay.
Remember to always tell the ones you love how much you love and cherish them. Never be stingy with "O how I love thee's"
2007-01-26 02:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think of one of the happiest times in life you had with her and take that same smile in with you when you visit her!!!. then go home and look at all the things in your home that came from her and how you got them also look at old pics from happy times and remember God and friends will take care of you both
2007-01-26 03:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tim O's wife 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take every minute of time with her as precious, cause it is.
she must be very special, and is lucky to have a sweet daughter like you, that loves her, appreciates her and pays the best homage to her in the world by being the wonderful loving person she has taught you to be.
love to you and your mom
2007-01-26 02:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by darlin12009 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋