have come to a conclusion that my friend mite be gay/curious. he acts gay sometimes. are there any ways/tell tale signs that he might be gay without asking him? ...thanks.
2007-01-26 02:42:36 · 12 answers · asked by yOYo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are truly his friend, it shouldn't matter to you whether he is gay or not.....
2007-01-26 02:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people have a gender nonconformity. This is were they have and show characteristics that seem to belong to the opposite sex. It is a seperate issue than homosexuality.
Some children may be born this way, while other children learn characteristics tha cause them to have the gender nonconformity.
Most children with this will at some time in their life think they were born gay. Some are even trying to say it is a predisposition to becoming gay. I know some children with a gender nonconformity do not become gay.
Homosexuality is constructed. Your friend may have been called gay, he may have been innoscently introduced to homosexuality as a child or some point in his life.
Often children forget the choices they have made, but the choice was made and it may surfface later in ones life. This happends to many people, most of them come to believe they was born gay.
There are no true signs one can go by. Yet it is important to know that if a friend thinks a friend is gay, immagine how many other people may have thought that. That could be a predisposition itself to a child.
The Formula For Producing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way:
A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality
Plus
That First
Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By
Pleasurable and Positive
Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added
More Homosexual
Experiences
Multiplied By
More Pleasurable
Thoughts
---------------------------
A Homosexual
Talk to your friend you may help him in fact .
2007-01-26 04:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way to know if the friend is gay is to bring a good looking gay man out with you and go to the bathroom. When you return, take the gay guy to the side and ask what happened while you were gone. You will get your answer then. Good luck.
2007-01-26 02:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How have you ever come back to that end? signs and indications like each female gestures at the instant are not stable. I even have met a hundred% immediately adult males who're very effeminate of their gestures, voice and habit. the choice has been real additionally. i'm a individual who favours honesty above something sneaky. in case you're that fascinated, discover a thank you to ask him outright. In inner maximum, and in a fashion that would not placed tension on him. you do no longer ought to tell him your individual emotions, except you easily experience that's suitable. you do no longer point out your age, which might impression some solutions which you get btw. youngsters are in many situations considered experimenting and nonetheless looking out, while 20+ individuals are considered as greater or much less desperate. that's a generalisation, no longer an absolute :-).
2016-11-27 20:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you have to do is hang out with him more and more until he starts acting strange and tell him some questions about guys and if he answers most of them then he is gay. i found out my friend was gay when he was looking at a guy calender and he was wearing makeup. so tell him if he would wear makeup then if he says yes then you can tell that he is gay. i have two friends that are gay and alot of friends that are straight. you can tell alot of different things in gay people and straight people by the way they act if they are put together. so think of something and ask him.
2007-01-26 03:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by precious_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can only look for the qualities of a gay person acting like a woman and feminine traits and beware cause some will fool you but in your sexual performance he will have more feminine than masculine arousal , not compassionate or forplay lovings as he would wants a man to give him the qualities you are desiring.
2007-01-26 02:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting him around real gay guys n see his reaction !
2007-01-26 03:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him girl magazines and if he puts it down fast that's a sign. better yet show him a boy mag and if he looks HE'S GAY! Real men don't look at calendar boys....
2007-01-26 02:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could drop a bar of soap?
2007-01-26 02:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by somanyquestions 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are at the gym and are showering turn around and drop the soap.
2007-01-26 02:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋