My best friend is almost exaclty a year younger than me. She is still in high school and I am not. About three months ago I started kinda seeing her best guy friend. Things were fine with that at first but then she started getting weird and telling me she wished she never introduced us. I stopped seeing him about two months later, not because of her but for other reasons. I then started seeing my high school sweetheart and she was still weird about it. Ever since then, things between us arent the same as they used to be and i dont like it. She always has to have our guy friends at her house and if they call me and not her she gets an attidude towards me. Lately, I really do not feel like being her friend, because she makes so angry all the time. I feel like she is trying to single me out so she has all the attention. I sit back and think, "Hey *****, your a year younger, why are you acting like this towards me when I'm supposed to be your "best friend"".
2007-01-26 02:21:50 · 17 answers · asked by sgraziano020 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think she's jealous
2007-01-26 02:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your friend is jealous of you. After all, she is younger than you and your thinking is more mature. One day she'll realise her actions and things will change. I know how you feel about all this. But she's probable just trying to get all the attention. Some people are like that. Sometimes you can't blame them.
Some might also get overboard and makes matters worse. You don't have to stop contacting your guys friends or feel offended by how jealous she feels. The guys are still your friends and there's nothing wrong with that. You have all the right to invite them over. They don't belong to her so there's nothing wrong.
Talk to her about how she's reacting all this while. Tell her what's right but don't scold her. Talk to her nicely no matter how angry you are of her. If you want things back to normal, you've got to hold yourself. I'm sure deep down in her, she'll want the same thing.
Nobody likes to make enemies. At least not that I know of. Don't push it and talk to her nicely. Go with the flow. I'm sure everything will be alright.
2007-01-26 10:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by IdOlIsTiC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point wasting time wondering if she's jealous of you or otherwise. She is not a friend. True friends don't treat you like this. Forget friends..she doesnt sound like a nice person either!Don't get into any fights or anything. Just start ignoring her. This ought kick her in the gutt. That'll be better than telling her off or trying to talk about why you dont want to be friends with her anymore!
2007-01-26 10:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy can be a evil thing, I've had the same sort of treatment (lost a really close friend) It's tough, but I'm a GROWN up and these things don't bother me any more, I've got a wonderful hubby 3 great kids, and if your mate wants to act like a stroppy 3 year old, let her!
2007-01-26 14:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous but also afraid that she may have lost you as a friend...when your in a friendship and someone else comes in, you tend to back away a little bit to be with that other person, tell her that she has nothing to worry about, your still friends but you also want to date and meet other people, you could always set aside the days that you spend time with her, she's just feeling a little bit left out....have a girlie night in with her at least once a month and maybe plan some time with her through the week....
2007-01-26 10:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of your life - in a way almost like sibling rivalry. She is younger and you will probably find totally immature - you are now getting on with your adult life and your outlook also changes. Try and reason with her - get it off your chest - if she doesn't come around - let go - stay friends but slowly you will find that you will drift apart
2007-01-26 10:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it sounds like just a jealous thing. Some think they have got to have all the attention all of the time. I had a friend like this. ;o( Gets really annoying after a while.
2007-01-26 10:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bounce!
Sounds like jealousy and to the extend that she is fine with destroying the friendship. Take a break and she will either come around or she won't.
2007-01-26 10:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been in a similar situation, sounds a bit like the green eyed monster there. Do not take no notice if she wants to play silly buggers let her crack on with it.
2007-01-26 14:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by kelly709904 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds jealous and a little immature. she probably feels she can't be as interesting as you as you're not in high school anymore. Don't worry about it, she'll leave soon to and things will settle down.
2007-01-26 10:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by helen_knott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just jealous and is feeling that she would rather being the one being bounced beneath him instead of you.
2007-01-26 10:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋