What are you supposed to do when somebody you like starts acting really distant towards everybody and completely unlike their character. like if somebody's a really warm, open talkative person and suddenly they don't talk to anybody and are like lost in their own problems are you just supposed to leave them alone or ask them what's wrong or try to make it better.
2007-01-26 02:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just support them and let them know that you're there for them if they DO ever feel like talking. I have had major personal problems too and I know what it is like not to want to be around anybody. THANK GOD I HAD GOOD, LOVING, CARING & UNDERSTANDING friends around me that gave me space when i needed it and were there when I needed them to be.
2007-01-26 02:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could really be going through something personal right now, dont leave her in a time of need, she might not be ready to talk about what shes going through (if shes going through anything).. just let her know that you are there by being there.
2007-01-26 10:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be a very good idea to ask her what's going on. There's a lot of really bad stuff that can make that happen and she may really need a good friend to help her out right now.
2007-01-27 02:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend is upset about something?! let me give you an exaple just to understand that this is normal!! a few weeks ago i told the girl i liked that i love her and she refused to understant and i was down for a very long time a friend of mine tryed to talk to me but i couldn't let her go let it go.... i got over it but i still think about her and every time i do that i get upset i don't waan talk to anybody and it takes time to get over something that important!!
why don't you stay more with her? if she feels like talking talk to her cuz if she sees that u don't wanna talk to her she probably won't do this again, that's talking to u about her problems!!! she must be going through a ruff period and u just have to wait!! it's normal to be like this!!
be patience and try to help her!!
2007-01-26 10:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is ask them whats wrong and if they want to talk about it, if they say they don't wanna talk about it then just say that you there for them if they ever do.
2007-01-26 10:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by always_4gotten <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to them, you offer your support or a listening ear and then you let them decide whether or not they want to talk to you about it.
2007-01-26 10:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care, ask her whats wrong.
2007-01-26 10:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please ask her whats wrong. those could be signs of depression
2007-01-26 11:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋