does a man compromise anything for his wife or is it only the wife's part to do all the adjustment
2007-01-26 02:08:54 · 29 answers · asked by Poornima G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I THINK THESE THINGS DEPENDS FROM PERSON TO PERSON.
2007-01-29 19:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
According to the old school of thought a wife should make all the adjustments after getting married and arriving at her in law's house. But modern thought has shifted 180 degrees to emphasise adjustment on the part of both husband and wife to make family life a happy and peaceful experience for both spouses. This adjustment is also nothing serious. It is actually an extended concept of sharing responsibilities. If a husband helps his wife in her household chores, he will actually benefit from it, as he would have more quality time to spend with her. It is more or less similar in other areas also.
2007-01-26 02:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion a wife must adjust more and compromise more than her husband in their married life because the wife is supposed to be the better-half.
2007-01-26 03:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every person must adjust as much as possible according to the current situation and always keep improving himself in his ability to adjust. But no person should ever compromise
2007-01-28 02:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by hardy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the behaviour and attitude of husband. Suppose husband is considerate and loving towards his wife, and still have some problems, you can adjust for the sake of your love upon him. In case husband is not at all cooperative and expects everything from you, then one has to think. Again this situation differs, if you have children. So, we have to judge accordingly. If both of them really love each other, then both have to compromise and it is only percentage of compromising, which differs. Since women, by birth, have tolerance more and can love more, they tolerate and compromise much, then only our children can learn something from us.
2007-01-26 02:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by durga v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In one line answer is, "as much as yu can" to save yur married life while keeping yur individuality intact.
In my view there cant be any percentage or who will compromise less or more........any one who understand and can analysis the importance of relationship better....need to adjust more and it is his/her duty to give more SPACE to his/her partner to realise his/her mistake.
Poornima, yu know compromise, adjustments etc etc all are very tricky situations in the married life and need to resolve more carefully not always by arguments, logic's.
Hope yu understand and if the exact situation comes in front than only a specific answer can be given.
2007-01-26 04:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one with humility will bow down first. But in the end they are the winners. There is the example of the tree laden with fruit.Only because it is full it bows down.
Others see the example and then bow down.But you need self respect and then others will respect you.
Men are often full of ego. They have been lead to believe they are god.Unfortunately they do not understand the qualities of God. God is selfless.He does not want anything for Himself.He only gives love. Men become addicted and expect love.But even a trace of anger will spoil it and they cannot give or get love.
No partnership is perfect from the start. We have to work at it. This is the way we learn to be creators and so a lot of service happens when others see our success.
2007-01-26 02:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The adjustment is not 50% as some might suggest. If it is that means you are keeping score and that will surely wreck a marriage over time. But it should be a partnership. You goal and his goal should be to help the other person. All I want is for my wife to live as happy a life as possible and that is all she desires for me.
2007-01-26 02:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any person with self respect will compromise to some degree to try anything to make there marriage work. However, there comes a point when one will think enough is enough. You deserve love and your spouse can show this with understanding,respecting and being faithful to you (amongst a load of other stuff). It should be a two way thing.
2007-01-26 03:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The adjustment needs to be 50/50. A marriage is NO ones sided thing.
2007-01-26 02:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There needs to be compromise on both parts for a marriage to succeed. Not every issue will be the sort where you can meet in the middle but it has to be back and forth with one not riding rough shod over the other every time there is a conflict.
2007-01-26 02:32:04 · answer #11 · answered by Barb S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋