I am a 31 year old English male currently living and working in Singapore, and each day when I leave home, I am always amazed by how many really beautiful women adorn the streets here (and other parts of Asia). But after a while, I don't want to be constantly reminded of this fact. I don't want to find my eye wondering to get a second glimpse of countless women's figures... Like any hot blooded male, sure, sex goes through my mind at various points of the day, but this 'thing' for Asian women is starting to really get to me.
I have a wonderful girlfriend, and I would NEVER cheat on her. I just wish I could largely blank out all the distractions I encounter on a daily basis - even at work!
There has always been a mutual attraction between the Asian and Western sexes, and I do encounter far more interest from Asian women. Is this to do with it?
Surely I am not alone, can any guys (or girls) offer me any advice?! Or is this just an unavoidable pitfall of being a guy, period?!
2007-01-26 01:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by JJ Sam 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Singapore
You mentioned you would NEVER cheat on your GF, that shows your love for for her is strong and true, at least for now... But since you mentioned that you have sex going thru your mind at various points of day, let's not cheat yourself by calling it "distractions", i would call it "lust".
Sure all men (and some women) are the same, they can love their wife/GF/lover with all their heart, yet there's always room to lust (fantazise) after other women from time to time.... but the similarity ends there.
Most guys (naturally) does reality checks and stays faithful to their One, and manage to resist temptations to cross the line to cheat on their love (be it affairs or one-nite-stands)... but for some who couldn't resist or tot they could get away with it, usually regreted their actions later, either from they guilt or because it broke up their wonderful family.
So what if you found another woman more beautiful and sexually more satisfying than your GF, and assuming she truely love you too, are you gonna dump your GF and stays faithful to this new found asian exotic ultimate love? I bet your 2 balls you'll find another one who will be better, after another, and another... so, when is the search for the "holely grail" gonna end?
One tree that you already have and can truely say it's yours, or the forest of trees that you can never truely own.... it's your choice.
2007-01-28 14:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by alamak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea Singapore is full of beautiful women but since you have decided NEVER to cheat on your wonderful girlfriend, then stop fantasizing!
I can see that you have a few choices here:
1) dump your girlfriend and date someone else
2) date someone else but don't dump your girlfriend
3) masturbate
It really is very easy for you to cheat while in Singapore what with all the SPGs and filipinos looking for a one-way meal ticket out with a rich white man. They find you VERY desirable too!
2007-01-27 00:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 years old Singaporean, and I always find Singapore girls very beautiful. I had been to some Western Countries, which I don't agree there is a mutual attraction between the Asian & Western sexes. As I still feel Singapore girls are more attractive than the Western girls.
So, if you can't resist yourself to cheat, stop giving excuses.
2007-01-28 21:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree, I have visited Singapore about 6 times in the last few years and I am always amazed and the beauty there. So petite and amazing. Only place better is Japan.
Don't cheat on your lady though. Just look.
2007-01-26 02:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are Asian girls who are not beautiful too! Have you looked at them yet? Maybe you should to draw reality back for you...
2007-01-26 18:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by twizteez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Love women exactly the way you respect them, be it Singaporean or your girlfriend, and I am sure they will respect what you are doing with them too.
2007-01-26 11:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by warmth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure either ..either u leave your gf so u wont cheat on her , or simply half open ure eyes when working n place ure gf pic on your desk to remind u of her ? gd luck :D
2007-01-27 17:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way - choose between a great (possibly life-long) partner and a great _____ (fill it in yourself).
2007-01-27 02:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by rfedrocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER say "never"... you will. Especially you. Advice? Be a monk.
2007-01-26 18:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to your girl.
2007-01-26 02:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋