2007-01-26 01:22:57 · 67 answers · asked by sweetlady24tt 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Continue to love her as always. MG
2007-01-26 01:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Morning Gloria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just treat her as you would even if you didnt know because that will help her out alot because she is probalby going through a hard time trying to understand what is happening with her and everything. But dont be afraid of her just cause she is a lesbian doesnt mean she is going to hit on ever girl and most girls who admit they are lesbians wont hit on there friends for the fact that they dont want to ruin there friendship with them. I should know about all this i've been through a ruff time understanding myself and i've learned alot
2007-01-26 02:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by ashers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend has admitted the fact that she's a lesbian and wants
to have a relationship with YOU, then you may have to deal with
any and all issues pertaining to that declaration.
However if she just came out to you and shows no interest in
you, then this in my opinion is a personal choice rather then
something you will need to directly deal with. Your friend being
gay is no different then if she were straight - Support her and
continue to being her friend if you wish.
2007-01-26 01:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by jrhughes3068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel hurt just like you but i would support her much more to let her know that you are always there too whoop that girl's *** if she hurts her! lol! Being gay can be hard or some people even for me. When this new girl who came into my class told me she was gay because i had asked her straight forward instead of listening to hearsay, she told me and she asked if i was ok with it and i am because she is a good person. It feels weird, your not judging people but ppl feel or are homphobic because it is way out of the ordinary. And yes, you wold feel torn but thats ok, remember everything happens for a reason, hope you feel better, bless......
2016-05-24 01:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont buy into this categorising of sexuality. I am sure that many full "hetrosexuals" have at least wondered about Homosexuality on occasion.
And vice versa of course.
I don't see how it affects your relationship, unless she is attracted to you and you are uncomfortable about this. If that is your concern ask her and let her know now how you feel. Otherwwise your "understanding" may be interpreted as meaning something else by her.
Don't live in a box and don't put others in boxes.
2007-01-26 01:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your her friend, be supportive of her decision to be open about her lifestyle. Being a friend, you shouldn't even ask that question. . A friend is supportive and always there. At times you may not agree on everything but you will always be there for them. Are you having a problem with it? If so figure it out before you ruin a good friendship. Sit down and talk honestly with her you might be surprised at how willing she is to talk about it.
2007-01-26 01:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just lean back and check in ya mind, whether u really wanna do anything, whether she being lesbian affects you personally, and whther she wants u to do anything! If she admitted somthign of her personal life to u, i believ that i finds it trustworthy and soothign telling u things of herr life, in short she considers u as a frn. Why dotn u jus remain her frn! , nothign more nothign less!!
2007-01-26 01:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Teri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can finish your breakfast !
Why would you want to do something :) she is still your friend, and you try to understand her and her reasons and respect her choice. Obviously if you have a very very strong thing against her choice and the gay lifestyle, then your friendship will be sour. But I see no reason why you would have to feel any differently about your friend.
2007-01-26 01:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by GuyNextDoor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she is a lesbian. She is still the same person you have known for years. It's shouldn't bother you.
2007-01-26 01:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by Get Real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same things you did before she told you she's a lesbian.
2007-01-26 01:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You continue to be her friend. People are under the illusion that if your friend is gay, they will hit on you; You may not even be her type. Gays & lesbians make the best of friends.
2007-01-26 01:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by To live is to learn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋