after so much hurt and lies?
2007-01-26 01:08:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You cant! You just have to more on...
2007-01-26 01:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by jewel64052 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to trust someone after they have hurt and lied to you. I believe deep down you never really get over it.
2007-01-26 09:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the betrayal is consistent, then mistrust starts to turn into resentment and usually there's no turning back. Sometimes wanting to trust a person you really don't causes to you to do things that show trust because you hope taking chances brings that trust back, but it doesn't. I think the best way to look at it is that you don't trust them for a reason and its because of the actions they've consistently chosen to take against you. You don't owe them something they've thrown away. Its most likely something you need to walk away from because pain and suffering is no way to live.
2007-01-26 09:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Get that someone out of your life. Unless the relationship is a marriage, then the offender has to work very hard to regain your trust. And that means total dedication to you 24/7. You will know. Listen and watch. The truth is in the actions.
2007-01-26 09:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Marissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think un can trust dome one after they hurt and lie to u .
2007-01-26 09:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is something that can take years to gain and seconds to lose. if you have been hurt by someone it can take time to heal and trust them again. start by forgiving them...then perhaps slowly give them something small that you can trust them with and see what they do with it. if they betray your trust again then perhaps they are not worthy of your trust...
mistrust makes life difficult...trust makes it risky --Mason Cooley
2007-01-26 09:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by tapioca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF they stop hurting and lying you can trust them.
it has to build up over time by you seeing their behavior.
can't trust if it is not earned.
2007-01-26 09:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you decide if it is worth being hurt again...can you handle more hurt and lies.
2007-01-26 09:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by R L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't honey, don't waste your time.
2007-01-26 09:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by nyrican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple: you don't.
2007-01-26 09:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋