my boy friend stole money from his grandmother and i dont know if it is time to break up he lied about it to me and i am scared that this means it will be eaiser for him to lie about bigger things i love him and i want to be together but is it possible for him to change and the money was for drugs but he has quit doing them because we had to make that choice. it happend about a month or a month asnd a half ago what to do help.
2007-01-26 00:58:50 · 13 answers · asked by Tazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tazy .. you say that you love your boyfriend. If you leave him at this crucial stage , his condition will detoriate further and he might start doing drugs again. You should not break up with him. Respect the fact that he confided in you that he stole money from his grandmother. The best thing to do in this case is talk with him. Talk to him about how bad you feel about this. He should probably confess to his grandmother. You should make sure that you convery him the message that if this happens again, you wont be able to cope with him..
Enjoy
2007-01-26 01:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by aries_18_mum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you should give him another chance to see if he changed and stopped doing drugs for sure. If he continues to do drugs then you should leave him because there is that possibility of him being untruthful in more important things. That would also mean that he probably doesn't love you as much as you love him especially if he doesn't tell you the truth or if he goes behind your back to do drugs. I hope you get this resolved soon.
2007-01-26 09:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lixender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is time for you to leave him. You can't be with a man that steals from his grandmother just to buy drugs. he lies to you about stealing and the lies will get bigger. The best thing is to let him go before it's to late.
2007-01-26 09:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by lilbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it and see if he can come up with a good excuse. If not, dump his sorry butt. If he steals from his own grandmother, who's to say he won't steal from you? As for the drugs, how do you really know if he stopped? Why do you want to stay with someone that lies to you?
2007-01-26 09:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by obsdabeff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has a drug habbit chances are he relapse and stealing money from grandma,is a sign of desperation to get a drug,if your just started a relationship with him tell him that your not comfortable about it and give him an ultimatum to get some help or loose you for good give him a choice
2007-01-26 09:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answers in your heart. If you have to ask then you know it is time to leave. Everything points to it but your heart is in conflict with logical thinking. You have to know that he is not the only one out there for you....
It is too early to tell if he is not going to turn back to drugs or if he is still doing them...
2007-01-26 09:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by say it ain't so 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe he will quit staeling if he stole from his own grandmother, what makes you so sure he won't steal from you? leave him before he commits a crime and takes you down with him.
2007-01-26 09:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him you know. And that if he isn't willing to admit his mistake and correct it, then your relationship doesn't have a future. Always be honest in a situation like this. Stick to your guns, don't take him back unless he corrects the mistake.
2007-01-26 09:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up wit him till 1 month later and see if he still does all dis...and are u so pocitive its for drugs?i mean he can surprise u by getting u something..
2007-01-26 09:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like he is going down the wrong road of life. looks like its time to move on and take some time to yourself.
2007-01-26 09:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by contraneal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋