I'm a scorpio and we are kind of lonley persons.We like to have few but good friends.I had that kind of friends,I put my soul in our relationship and I had to suffer because I lost each one of them because of stupid reasons.I feel that I don't have to trust anybody because they will disapoint me too. What should I do to earn a good and loyal friend?
2007-01-26 00:32:55 · 15 answers · asked by CrisTynutza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im a scorpio too and I was going through the same thing a while ago. Dont be so quick to trust people and just because a person is nice to you all the time doesnt mean they cant be mean too. Its also a problem for me to let go of grudges...it probably might help if you tried that too. Oh, and if you dont know how yet, learn to sit back and observe people...get a feel for them and try to figure out what kind of person they are before you just jump into a friendship.
2007-01-28 17:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by jayfreeze18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sweetie, that's life. There's ups and downs, but you need to remember that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I'm sure you've learned a great deal about life from your hardships with friends. Perhaps that experience will teach you how to better judge people in the future. Go out there, have fun, do what you love, and I guarantee you will make some fairto decent friends. No one is perfect. So should you ever trust anyone again? Of course. Just be more careful about who it is next time. If it ends up not working out, so what? You're the better person for it.
2007-01-26 00:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by obsdabeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just beyond being loyal. I thought I was a good judge of character but a 6 year relationship with a worthless, lying, sneaking bum really opened my eyes that you can't always trust your own judgment. All I can say, is if they are a snake, it will come out in the end. The good news is there are some good ones out there so keep looking and good luck finding one of them that is loyal, honest and true.
2007-01-26 01:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What 'stupid reasons' that costs you those good friends? Learn from your mistakes so that you can judge them better - whether or not to trust them with all your heart and soul. Good friendship needs a balance between giving and receiving. But the most important thing is just be yourself - good friends will come along.
2007-01-26 00:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first don't listen ur your horscope!!!! they sux and there not real just be u not what a horoscope tells u what u are!! not about ur friends... u need to sux up all ur fear and just go up to them that the reason u guys are fighting is stupid and that u wanna work this out cuz loseing a friend is not worth fighting over something stupid!!!! but becareful how you say it cuz what might b stupid to you might not b to them!! so just b like listen we have been friends for this long and this is a silly lil fight can we just get over it and start fresh? things will b a lil acward at first then it will go back to normal if they say they forgive u!!! i been through all this sh*t trust me it sux!! friends can b hard sometimes!!!!
~~Cynthia~~
2007-01-26 00:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you let yourself trust someone, you give them the chance to hurt you, and if they take that chance, well, you just found out what they are really like. It's worth getting hurt, to find the few who won't hurt you. So when the mirror of your life shatters, you will know whom to turn to, to help you pick up the pieces.
2007-01-26 01:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too damned trusting...that's how I continuously finally end up the "stepping stone" or "the therapist" or "the mummy" in relationships. and that i attempt to locate the strong in everybody, no count number how poor they have been to me. that is a war in certain circumstances...yet, if i want to love someone i really ignore each and every of the caution indicators and massive pink flashing light fixtures...
2016-12-03 01:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i thnk u should move on from ur past. been there done that. stop thinkin bout ur past relationship. its juz gonna hold u from movin on. you wanna a good and loyal fren?? why don't you made ur self good and loyal first. by that, more people would trust u and like to be friends wit u.
2007-01-26 00:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in Jesus Ask Him into your heart and He will lead you to the people you need to know
2007-01-26 00:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can trust people to a certain extent but you should never completely trust anyone but yourself
2007-01-26 00:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋