Is there any way to find what partner best suits you?

Answer 1

This is the BIG question for a lot of people. Its almost impossibl to answer. I'll give it a try and at least toss out some basics. When people become involved in a relationship their emotions get involved as well. People are emotional beings. However, our emotions can lead us to making bad decisions so we have to first remember to keep our eyes and ears open and listen. The first and most obvious step is physical attraction. Both people need to be physically attracted to each other. Pay no attention to those people who say beauty is on the inside. It is, but its on the outside too. A person someone else thinks is unattractive, you may find beautiful, and vice versa. Once you have the physical attraction, then you must both be willing to get together. You should both be single and available to do so, and agree mutually to get together. Then the important communications begin. This can be in the form of the spoken word or physical speach or body language. Its important to just be yourself. Don't put on a false front as eventually you will forget or tire of playing that game and expose the real you and that could lead to disaster. If the relationship is not going to work, you want to know as soon as possible. Two people should have as much common ground with each other as possible. No one will ever have a 100% match so don't try. Those differences are important though and telling. If you hate some things she likes to do, can you learn to live with that or will it bother you forever. Can you both be flexible and come to an agreement about certain important differences. If not, then this will always be an issue, it will eventually cause resentment and conflict and the relationship will sour. All of this takes time, do not rush it. Its OK to break up for a while and see if you both find yourself drawn back to eaach other. Important note. Leave the sex out of it. Its the emotional killer. Its natural for people to be all euphoric about each other sexually when they first meet. This works serious havoc with your emotions and common sense. Too many believe this euphoric feeling is Love, it is NOT. So if your drawn back to each other because your horney, its not going to work. If your drawn back towards each other because you truly miss them and the fun you had doing things together, then you probably have the right chemistry. Lastly, once you've discovered the person with the right physical attraction for you, and you have a lot of common interest, and you communicate well, and compromise without keeping score and are true to your word without effort, you need to give it time. Experience each other for a few years. This allows you to let your barriers down and be yourself. If either of you is putting on a show, IE: being on your best behaviour, this will eventually break down, and the real person will be exposed. You also have to realize how to be with someone of the opposite sex. Men ARE different than women. Men act out, women talk about it with their friends when they are angry. You have to understand your partner and how they operate. If all of this falls into place, then you have found your partner in live, your soul mate. But, if at any time you see a red flag, and something bothers you, or you don't feel things are right, do not be afraid to break off the relationship as soon as possible. There is nothing worse than wasting your time and months or years of your life with the wrong person because you were afraid to break it off or thought you could fix them, or that the problem would just go away. End it and move on.

Answer 2

Start by making a list of the things you want in a person and if the ones you meet do not live up to the list keep looking. I did this and it was a lot faster than deciding after dating for a while the fist thing on the list they didn't fit it was over, I wasn't wasting time. and I met my husband that way he met all the things on my list. we have been together for 14 years and it is going good we are both very happy with each other.

Answer 3

The only true way you can find out who's right for you, is to keep trying... I only wish I could take my own advice =P

Eventually, you'll end up going out with the same type of person, or people that you think are interesting, and you'll avoid the ones that are boring / sick. Then you'll know what type of person suits you the best.

Good luck!

Answer 4

there is not any such ingredient as a appropriate couple. If we adore somebody we could continually the way it is user-friendly to settle for who they are certainly. A courting could be artwork out by way of 2 persons, Love is a constantly getting to understand technique. extensive-unfold you will locate out something new approximately him/her.

Answer 5

Yes. Search for them.

Answer 6

It's never who you think your 'ideal' is ,it's better. Have fun looking!! ( don't rush!) ; )

Answer 7

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