For older moms and dads... did you ever...???

Question

catch one of your children in the act of "self pleasure?" What did you do?

Answer 1

OMG YES!!!
I did - long time ago. lol
I was like oh no. I didnt want to deal with it. I knew I had to. What I did was shut the door when I seen it. (he was laying down - taking a nap). Anyway, later I told him I saw him and that I didnt want to see it again and especially didn't want his little sister see it. I told him that there was nothing wrong with what he did - that its perfectly natural (didnt want him to think he was a freak) but I said do it in private. Everything was fine, never caught him again.

Answer 2

Normally, parents do not wish to interfere in the 'personal pursuits' of their children if they remain within limits. However, parents who take upon themselves the onerous duties of a 'checking squad', they would catch and offer advice, admonition, warning or just a persuasive suggestion to avoid with a tab on possible consequences!

Answer 3

i imagine it relies upon how cool your mothers and fathers are to be straightforward and how close you're. And maximum definitly even if it become your mom or dad? Dad's might want to not in any respect want to work out their infant women having sex, atleast i'm hoping no longer lol. they could both snigger about it with you, or be thoroughly bowled over then does no longer say some thing about it. My exboyfriend now and that i have been doing it and his mom walked in, she become merely in awe and merely stated "OH! sorry!" and closed the door immediately the subsequent day i become terrified to work out her, yet she merely made jokes about it and laughed alongside with us. My mothers and fathers on the different hands have a strong humorousness, I funny tale round with all of them the time. To a certrain volume. My dad might want to be very indignant, surprisingly if it become in his own abode.. at the same time as he become abode. My mom might want to probable cope with it in a awkward count number, yet probable seem decrease back and snigger/make jokes.

Answer 4

Yes I have caught my daughter. It depends a lot on the age of the child, I think you need to tell them it is OK for them to be doing what theay are doing. That most people, male and female have done it. It is natural and normal.

Answer 5

Sure...But only when they were little kids. I just told them that what they were doing should be done when they were alone and it was a private thing.

My mother caught me once I was maybe 4 or 5 and beat the living shite out of me

Answer 6

No, never did, but knew that he was, but never had any reason to say anthing about it, like when he'd leave a magazine carelessly lying around. It's totally natural; no need to ruin it for him.

Answer 7

oh lord yes

my son was the biggy he would rub himself all over in a store in a restraunt once he found out it "felt good " he was all over it

we had to sit down with him and talk to him in his language

it is ok to do it BUT in your room or in the bathroom
it is a private thing ppl do and we do it behind closed doors

Answer 8

Just close the door and leave, I don't think you need to talk about it or anything. Its just a natural personal thing to do.

Answer 9

No, I haven't.

But if it's happened, may be I will talk and discuss with him/her as adult to adult about it and how to do other better things than that activity. I will not make him/her feel embarrassed.

Answer 10

It's not like you have seen them murdering someone, and don't tell me you never did it when you where younger!!! Just do not say anything about it, it will just mortify them.