How important is it for a woman to climax during intercourse? Are you disapointed or is it just one of those things...?
If it is an issue for a woman that she does not climax during intercourse does making her orgam through oral sex either before or after intercourse make things less of an issue?
2007-01-25 23:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by kwambonambi 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Thank you for your answers. I was expecting a few silly ones but it all seems to be quite decent and clean.
The problem is is that she can only seem to orgasm when she is on top, any other position then she can be 'almost there' but the wave does not break. I get bored of her being on top and sometimes just want to do my thing. From your answers it seems as if we are both content after there is nothing to worry about.
Thanks.
2007-01-26 02:12:39 · update #1
Personally, I really enjoy an orgasm during intercourse or oral sex, but if I've made my guy really happy, that makes me feel very good too. I really like making sure that he has gotten off well. He ALWAYS makes it up to me if I've gotten too wrapped up in him to worry about getting off myself. Sometimes it's all about him and sometimes it's all about me. Both ways are great!
The thing is, if I just want a screaming great orgasm, I can do that for myself, but the closeness of sex is what I crave most and that makes it worthwhile whether I orgasm or not at that particular time.
2007-01-26 01:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person, male or female, does not have to climax every time during intercourse. I believe a person should be trying to please the other person. If you are trying to satisfy your partner, your partner will/should try to please you. But, there is nothing wrong with pleasing a person without having a climax. But, I wouldn't make it a habit.
Two things will assist a woman to achieve climax. One is foreplay. This assists with preparing the woman for the moment. If you relationship includes foreplay, maybe extra time will help.
The other important factor is the clit. Clit stimulation makes a big difference. Either person can do this.
Oral sex is great. I don't believe is should be substituted for intercourse. But, the most important thing is what makes the couple happy. Both of you have to enjoy what you are doing and how you are doing it. Do not set your standards on what you read in magazines or hear on TV. If both of y'all are happy, that's what counts!
2007-01-26 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by jack-copeland@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although everyone would like to have an orgasm everytime they havce intercourse, unfortunately sometimes it just can't happen.
A lot of women actually cannot orgasm at all from intercourse. It is actually really common for women to only be able to have an orgasm when they are on top.
I would suggest giving your woman oral first so she can orgasm and then jump on and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-26 06:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, sex is like have a meal and climax is like having the desert. If I am having a really delicious meal, I would be satisfied and a desert would be a bonus. But sometimes I would like a desert anyway even after nice meal. So, it's all depends on the mood.
Hope I didn't confuse you.
2007-01-26 01:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
here is something to consider... oral sex is sometimes seen as foreplay....see like bill engvall said," women are like diesel engines, it takes a little while to warm them up BUT MAN they can go a long, long time...guys are more like bottle-rockets"....anyway i said that in order to make a point..... oral sex is a great way to knock the edge off so to say... and it really depends on what she likes...... and keep this in mind, every woman is different.... i say, give her orgasm and if you already have, then get restimulated again and get an even better one for yourself... but always make sure the lady is pleased....
2007-01-27 12:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by hardscout69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well....how important is it for YOU to climax during intercourse?
Wouldn't you be dissappointed if YOU didn't climax?
Oh, and...oral sex.....ANYTIME...is GREAT!!
2007-01-26 00:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by WMR30 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with WMR30 wholeheartedly.
2007-01-26 00:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by daphnerst 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋