i really really really like my best friends cousin!!!!!!!?

Question

but i havent told her, and im sure he likes me cos we have been texting nonstop since christmas, but he has moved two hours away, any who recently i was out with another friend and ( friends cousin) and my other friend was talkin to her and said to her i think they're is something going on between them, and the friend turned around and said "dont say that about my cousin any way they are only messin" Question is should i sit my friend down and tell her i like her cousin, before tellin him i like him or should i tell him i like him first then her, im half afraid that my friend will get angry and not talk to me, now ur prob thinkin oh no another teenager problem, im not a teenager!!!! and i know its annoyinh seeing these kind of questions its just im not comfortable talkin to any other friends incase it gets back to my other friend and wouldnt like for her to hear it that way!! ya know

Answer 1

Just tell your friend first that you really like his cousin and ask if he would have a problem with the two of you say that you really value his friendship so thats why you are asking him first if he is a true friend he wont stand in the way of your happiness hope this helps

Answer 2

First sort out your feelings with him. If both of you are serious about starting a relationship, then move forward from there. Do your friend the courtesy of telling her, but do not allow her reaction to affect you relationship. Make it clear to her that you are telling her as a friend and that you intend to continue with your life regardless. If she is a friend, she will be happy for you that you have found someone. If not, then you can find better friends and have your relationship.

Answer 3

if she is a good friend she would be happy for you to hook up with her cousin, but she may feel a little weird and left out around you guys but tell her and see what she says. if the connection is there between you and the cousin then you should explore it

Answer 4

talk to her first, becasue if ya tell him and then her and she doesnt like the idea then it will be awkward between you and him.. but i dont see why you have to get her apporoval your grown ups i think anyway its your life and she doesnt own him ive dated a ton a my cousins friends and even one of their cousins by marriage and they didnt care they supported me but id didnt ask for there approval what fun would life be if you had to ask for approval....

i would ask her if your worried but she isnt gonna be a good friend if she doesnt support you

good luck wit it i hope it all works out

Answer 5

OH DEAR, do not be nervous speak to your friend ,ask her what she thinks,she may even advise you ,I do not think she would be angry ,if she is that would be a shame but ,Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained ,at least she knows you ,try to keep in touch with him and tell your friend you have e,mailed/written /spoken /to him .

Answer 6

Just tell him how you feel and then let him tell his cousin. That solves the problem of telling her but honestly I don't know what you are worried about

Answer 7

there will be no criminal dating. there is no longer even a criminal dating between closer in-regulations. that's a social dating in user-friendly terms, a minimum of by skill of the regulations of maximum Western worldwide places.

Answer 8

talk to your friend first you said you dont want her to hear it from someone else so you talk to her first explain how you feel

plus theirs a lot of unsaid rules about dateing your friends famliy so get that cleared up first

good luck

Answer 9

Tell your friend. She might just help you get him. If not, still tell her first. And them go for it!!

Answer 10

this is complicated. lol
since u r not a kid anymore, be brave, Tell Him!
if u truly like him, ignore others comment