i mean i don't know from where to start, i use to be more happy i use to be another person that i am today ... my problems are alot i will say 2 of them by writing ... i am a gay i mean not gay by looking but as feeling when i'm with myself i like it i mean it feels sexy (like an artist) but when i am in a social life i hate it when i'm with friends i go so stress (nobody knows) just i like to be normal like them ... in another way i left school i am in a new type of life i mean i am working in a network place that it's for my brother and his partner but i am so unhappy from inside this is not my place ... i can do better really i know myself i am so artistic and i love to dance i'm another no one can understands me But i know i will sound stupid i love my family and sometimes this life.........
2007-01-25 23:41:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just live your life for you and you alone and everything will be ok dont worry about how others think of you just love yourself
2007-01-25 23:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by links305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any particular reason you can't ask him out? If he's interested in you at all he'll say yes. Asking women out is a bit of an intimidating task because no matter how much flirting you have done she may still shoot you down, but if the woman asks then all that disappears and she takes a huge advantage over anybody else he's interested in. I've gone out with a couple girls simply because they asked me out and when I realized they were interested, I became interested. Yes, he's moved on from you if he's asking you about other girls because he thinks they're hot. That doesn't mean you can't get him back, just that you will have to actively get him and not wait for him to come to you. If he was interested a couple days ago the interest is still there. He's not trying to make you jealous, otherwise he'd use a girl that he knows you know and not just somebody in your friends list. He might be trying to make a girl you know jealous, but that seems pretty unlikely if you two have been talking for more than a week or 2. Talking to pretty girls and getting to know them is how guys are supposed to start dating, he starts with a physical interest and then gets to know you before any investment other than time on his part. That way if you are just a pretty face with a dull personality he can cut it off after a few conversations and there are no hard feelings or wasted effort. If you can't ask him out then come up with an event (concert, party etc.) that you both enjoy. If there are lots of other people and some mutual friends then you two can talk and get a feel for whether or not he likes you. You need to let him know you are interested in him. Lastly, he doesn't have a 6 pack. If he did you'd have seen it. Getting a 6 pack takes epic amounts of work and the whole point of it is to show it off, even to friends. It's also great for picking up girls. That's not to say he's lying, he probably has a flat stomach. Think of it as being the male equivalent of a push-up bra, he's boasting more than he has, but you won't know until you get the clothes off.
2016-05-24 01:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And that must end us; that must be our cure--
To be no more. Sad cure! for who would lose,
Though full of pain, this intellectual being,
Those thoughts that wander through eternity,
To perish rather, swallowed up and lost
In the wide womb of uncreated Night,
Devoid of sense and motion?
--Milton, from paradise lost.
That's the most beautiful and eloquent argument against suicide I've ever seen. Beautiful may not mean functional, however, so I'll tell you what you already know-- life is long, and things change quickly. The nature of all things is transient. Before long you'll be hanging out with other people where you feel more accepted. Just stick with it. And keep reading those poem lines until it sinks in.
2007-01-25 23:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by nope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand what you're going through believe it or not. As far back as I can remember I have had gay feelings and I denied them. I denied them to myself and ultimately it hurt me inside. When I was 17 I decided to tell my best friend who I love and loves me...and she understood. She made me feel alright about myself. Once you realize that you can and will be accepted by most everyone it eases the burden. I don't know how your family is or how they will react, but be realistic about what you should expect from them...don't over estimate the power of love. My family accepted me and I will never pretend to be someone that I am not. There are people that will try to make you feel bad about being who you are and those people are just insecure in who they are. It is better to be disliked for being who YOU are than to be liked for being someone you aren't. Trust yourself, listen to yourself with total honesty and you will prevail through this. Once you've made it to the other side you will look back in ways you can't grasp right now and realize, How foolish I was to think that by killing myself I would solve the problem. You have a very precious life to live and you should live it to its fullest, enjoy your life and yourself. Be who you are and don't be afraid. You will prevail. If you continue to have feelings of hurting yourself and you actually plan to follow through, you should seek help. I wish you the best on your journey!
2007-01-26 06:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by C K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just join your dance classes.... study something... read... do what you like.... because if you really like it, you could become really good at it, and free yourself from your misery by making a career. Don't sit around and mope...you could even return to school and graduate, and then do some college...
From what I read... you are attracted to yourself? Like you see yourself and feel turned on? That really isn't as abnormal as you think. Perhaps you just need to control your mind and divert it into better streams.
As for homosexuality, which is a bit different... well that's just a sexual preference and not the end of the world. Really. And maybe it's just a phase and not your true identity. A lot of teenagers question their sexuality...
In net, do what you like and believe in, and who you are will become clear to you.
2007-01-26 02:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by In-Sync 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I worked in the hair business, flower business in South Florida. Tons of gay men and I am straight. But these guys are all just good guys you can't help who your attracted to. Don't hurt yourself cause u r different. You just need to b honest with yourself and others.LOVE U, AND BE SURE of who u r. It's ok. Be sure to be a good person and good people will b good to you. You will find love but you must spend time looking. life's a journey and sometimes it gets bumpy, hang on and look for good times ahead. Follow your dreams and never let people kick u down. you can be or do anything you want.
WORK HARD......PLAY HARD.....LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH AND SMILE.
Best of luck and love, and peace within you....
2007-01-26 00:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kill yourself cuz beliive u me hell is alot worse then what u r going thru and their is a hell! I think u should try talking to someone anybody and tell them what u are feeling maybe go to a pyschologist. U dont seem to really know what you want so help yourself find out and start talking the more u talk the less stressed u feel and the more u learn about yourself
2007-01-25 23:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't get sad or unhappy. keep working and try to get some relations with girls, but in a friendship manner, in this way u will feel like a man and you 'll come to know that how to act like a pure gentle man. and don't get dis heart and try to do what Eva u want to. it could be anything in which you feel happiness inside of u.
2007-01-25 23:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by alikhalid21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be a phone number you can call for counseling. Look it up on a search engine and call them. I have done that and it worked. Try it.
2007-01-25 23:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was weird reading it but hey... if u like being gay go 4 it if not stop and get a girl rather don't have sausage to taco....
2007-01-25 23:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ang3l_Of_Darkn3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋