Say you're on a first date with a guy, and it's going well. You're at a restaurant, the food is good, the conversation is interesting, and he seems like a really good prospect, intelligent and respectful.
Then, he says, "I'll be right back.....I gotta go take a dump" and gets up and goes to the restroom. When he gets back, he says, "Whew, that was brutal" and then resumes eating as if nothing were amiss.
Would you have second thoughts about him then?
2007-01-25 23:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by spun_up_06 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, that is just a man thing. While hardly elegant manners, it would indicate he was really relaxed with me. You can guarantee if you are with a guy a long time that is exactly what he would say. Men are inordinately proud of their bowel movements, perhaps because it is the only thing they give birth to.
So, I would continue the conversation without skipping a beat, and possibly tease him about his "too much information".
I bet men would hate it if women did the same thing though. Or said "I am having the biggest flow - you should see it. I'm flooding!".
2007-01-25 23:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Well, in hind sight, you're basically just skipping over about 5 or 6 years and getting him for who he is.
I agree with the other answerer...sounds like husband material to me!
Once my husband took me out to eat at a nice restaurant (we've been married 15 years) and went to the bathroom, whispered in the managers ear, came and sat back down to inform me he had clogged the toilet, and picked up his fork to finish his meal like nothing had ever happened.
It made ME feel that the eyes were upon us, but it didn't bother him one damn bit. Men do that. They can take a crap in any public restroom at any given moment. Women have an inner voice that says "wait until you get home" because we simply are different.
2007-01-25 23:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Johnny Depp (according to looks and character) although, i admire Keanu too considering the fact that he's type of mysterious and likewise actual has the appearance. i'm no longer particularly into Pattinson, sorry. those 3 adult males do have in undemanding that they are so familiar and type of shy away from the attention.
2016-11-01 08:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Second and third thoughts. If he talks like that with his friends that is one thing, but on the first date he needs to act like a gentleman.
2007-01-25 23:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Betty R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he has to go he has to go but I dont need to know what hes doing or how bad it was thats too personal for the first meeting!!! But what do I know my best friend married someone she met in a bathroom!!
2007-01-25 23:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See. This is why I dont go for dates with intelligent and respectful guys. They ARE full of sheeet. lol
2007-01-25 23:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess thats a good thing, it means hes comfortable around you, but if thats waht comes out of him mouth on the first date.....I can only imagine the rest of your life......
2007-01-25 23:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Krystle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong, I like to talk about poo...but there is a time and a place. So yes, I would. I would finish dinner but I wouldn't call him.
2007-01-25 23:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would probably laugh and chock it up to him being enough of a man to be honest. Only goodie-goodie-gals would cut him out for that.
2007-01-26 00:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Collared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really,I'd tell him "thanx for sharing",but I'd order dessert with something strawberry or cherry in it..then before its served tell him I had to go whizz...return to the table & say " man o man that flowed like cherry juice,thought it'd never stop!"Later if he got frisky with me I'd tell him my own cherry juices were flowing (period)so no nookie for him!" =)
2007-01-25 23:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋