Why do people change?
2007-01-25 22:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexual orientation does not change as we grow older. But people have the ability to make choices...some choose to deny their true sexual orientation and others choose to embrace it.
2007-01-25 23:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
They are always gay, but claim to be straight to try to fit in and not be different. They are not happy until they admit to themselves that they are gay.
2007-01-26 01:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the child in question wasn't gay or straight(as the case may be) in the first place.
2007-01-25 23:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's probably just a bisexual person who changed from a gay relationship to a straight relationship but that doesn't mean that the homosexual feelings will go away. If I date a woman that doesn't mean I'm straight, I would be a homosexual male in a heterosexual relationship.
2007-01-25 23:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
no one can "change" who they innately are. unfortunately, a lot of us are brought up being taught that being gay is something to be ashamed of, so to please the family, they suppress and deny who they are. and then they are miserable. and eventually, they reject the lies and decide they can't live that way anymore and "come out" and live a happier life.
2007-01-26 00:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of change but rather a matter of realisation. They always were, whatever they realise that they have become.
2007-01-25 23:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wot??
You don't really know what your sexuality IS until you grow up! What does a kid know about his/her sexual psychology?
And besides, people change all the time - you're not the same person at 30 that you were at 20 or 10. Logical, nicht?
2007-01-25 23:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think you'd choose your sexuality when you have grown up, it isn't determined from childhood.
Boys aren't gay intrinsically, neither are they straight. sex doesn't enter the equation in their heads until they are into their teens. then they make their choices based on experience and environment.
I think boys who turn gay want to try being penetrated and being treated like a woman and a man at the same time
2007-01-25 23:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
gay boys may turn straight for peer pressure, religion, or just to test the waters. straight turn gay to see what it's like.
2007-01-25 22:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by =Bee-8-Nnn= 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
because as you grow up your needs change, you realise things about yourself you might not have known before.
2007-01-26 00:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋