what is the deal with men?

Question

why do they allways think the grass will be greener?

Answer 1

Honey, if its growing grass, you need to mow that field

Answer 2

Izzy, the question can only have been asked by a women who is young and has no experiences with men.
First of all women do the same thing but are more discreet, Men do it because its almost programed in the genes. Men look for the greener pastures to plant more corn, fertile women to make stronger off spring. So all men are explorers and adventures, if you understand that you will understand MEN.

Answer 3

Good men don't. I never have,

Problem is that in general , at this point in time there are many more available women than men -- and very few cultures where monogamy is truly valued in terms of the public media. Secondarily, at least here in the United States I don't think men or women are well taught in having the right type of expectations or knowledge of "how to care for their significant other", and I don't mean just the sexual stuff only.

So you have a situation where there are many more women out there advertising their availability and goodness, more mobility in terms of jobs, home arrangements, etc., and a creature who wants good things and will go after what is advertised as easily available out there vs. not so available at home -- even if all it would take is a little more work on his part in the home to have everything he wants right there.

And for the men, "yougottawanna" have it better at home than out there to make the investment in learning how to be with your woman if you want it to be better right there.

Answer 4

dont know really but i think that its a 50/50 now and women are the same in thinking that the grass is greener. how things change.

Answer 5

both men and women think the grass is greener on the other side

Answer 6

I think some men are still just afraid of commitment to one person because they feel like that will be the end of their lives as they know them. Of course, that's not true, but I hear it a lot. Once you get married you can't do this or that. It's ridiculous. If you marry the right person your life gets better because you have a partner to spend it with. I guess some men still think with the wrong head....if you get my drift.

Answer 7

I assume you mean other women. Males are programmed to reach out to many women. In general, I dont think monogomy is the natural order for mamals. Its an un-natural behavior supported only by personal committment and restraint. Some can do it and others cant or dont want to.

Answer 8

see men r actually the spices of life but they always want to be tough in ur presence thereby tending to be difficult. but once u make urself their weak point u enjoy a relationship with them. how do u do that: be there 4 them, don't be a nagging person, don't make them feel they r the center of ur life, be urself always, be seen to be faithful but lastly prove u can be trusted with their little secrets.

Answer 9

we don't all think that, and in my opinion many women are no different. sounds like you just found the wrong guy and most likely is not mature enough to know any better. trust me if you find someone good and your are connected you don't care about the other side.

Answer 10

Because they think with the brain in there smaller head.