Do you feel like your sex life is going down hill? What have you done to spice things up? Please give me some ideas!!! thanks
2007-01-25 21:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by tishniaeq069696 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could buy a "52 Weeks of Romance" or "52 Weeks of Naughty Nights" kit. They come with scratch-off cards. You and your spouse rotate weeks choosing a card and enacting whatever it says. You can find more info. at Amazon. I think I bought mine in a lingerie shop.
You could purchase some new lingerie, create a runway, and put on a sexy fashion show for your husband. He could take pictures and judge each piece of lingerie.
You could try new positions or a new location. A new location in your home (the shower, on top of the washing machine during the spin cycle) or a location away from home. Some people fantasize about public places.
Leave him provocative notes or pictures of yourself in unexpected places (lunch bag) so that he thinks about you during the day.
Does he have an office? Visit him for lunch one day wearing something shocking under your coat. You be the dessert!
Or one evenging, make him into the dessert - a banana split. He supplies the banana; you pile on the whipped cream & chocolate and enjoy.
Edible body paints are fun if you're into art.
If you're both not too shy and like to act, you could roleplay (as in Doctor/Patient, Master/Slave, Police Officer/Speeder). Or describe your fantasies to each other and then act them out.
Use your imagination - there a lots of ideas!
2007-01-25 22:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through a similar stage at the moment and am trying to bring it back under control. I think we all get a little boring and normal sometimes esp when stress and all the boring bills and family worries take hold. I think its important to keep it fun as it is fun even though it can seem like a chore sometimes! I know for me, its really important for me to feel sexy and for my husband to treat me like a woman and for there to be a lot of lust. Its hard hun cuz sometimes you don't have time for all the fun lusty stuff that was in the early stages but try to do something that relaxes you first and then think of a few things which might get him really excited when he gets home. Or even play a few games (NOT mind games, I mean games like pretending you've just met and you're having sex for the first time again or something!)
Good luck honey, and any great tips you get, i'd love to know about too! As for those women who never have these problems, well lucky you! Its great you can get through day to day stress without it effecting your sex life, i'd love to know your tricks!
xx
2007-01-26 06:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angie Mac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're sitting together watching TV, casually start using a sex toy on yourself with your legs outstretched
99% chance he'll be turned on. And it'll certainly be a surprise ;)
2007-01-26 06:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Overfiend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shave clean my p__y. Men like this all the time.
I also bought new panties, ya know, the short, thight boxer and thongs.
Dont mind him, just try to make sure he see's whats' new on you.
2007-01-26 06:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Future Generation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring in toys and lotions
2007-01-26 06:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dance. strip tease. have fun
try bj
you just might like it
and he definately will.
2007-01-26 06:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by jorluke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never felt like that.
2007-01-26 05:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't need to do anything it just happens to be good all the time.........
2007-01-26 05:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋