Did your husband ask to bring in another woman?
Or did you offer cause things were getting dull?
Did you make up some rules and what were they?
Any help would be great thanks all!
2007-01-25 21:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by tishniaeq069696 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure this is something I would consider with my husband. If I did though, it'd have to be something we both felt TOTALLY comfortable with, not one of us pressuring the other into because its gotten dull or something. If you do decide to invite someone else in then I would strongly recommend against inviting someone you know into the bedroom. I feel this could cause alot of jealousy issues further down the track. Either someone you met for that sole reason or even paid to be involved would be the best way in my opinion but we're all different. If you do it, just make sure its because you both really want to.
note: I just read the person before my comment and thought I'd add that perhaps a group of people getting together might be a good way to go. That sounds like it might be a bit less intimidating too if it isnt just you, him and another woman? Good luck in whatever you choose :)
2007-01-25 21:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Angie Mac 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first off, I think that if mine did, I'd say yes, because it will help spice your love life. Its not because its dull, but because wanting new experience or like I said, to spice things up a bit.
You can set your own rules to anything you want. You and your mate can talk about it and you might decide what she looks like and how she is. Just make sure you both again on this before it gets started or there might be a jeolousy problem. Which you can't have if you both are going to do this. Ask yourself this question, Have you ever fantazied about two men? If so, did you ever wonder if it will be fun? Most likely thats what is going on with your husband. He has fantizied about two women for a long time. Have Fun!!
2007-01-26 06:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
my husband was looking for that type of thing on the internet without asking and it has really put a kink in our marriage instead of kinky! I personally think that its a bad idea spice or no spice i mean my feeling is we could have tryed some things to spice up the marriage way before you start thinking about things like that i cant believe any one can just hand their partner over like that they better be pretty confident that they are coming back i think its distrustfull,and now because of that my husband just isnt getting any at all
2007-01-26 05:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
No and no And No~~~ If he asks he is bored and if you ask you are bored and for the rules this should not be happening with the one u love I know I could not watch my fiancee touch another woman~
2007-01-26 08:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We talked about it and decided to do it sometime, but only if the girl was completely to me, so that he can't touch her. We agreed on it because he couldn't stand watching me with some other guy, and I can't stand watching him with another girl, but he has fantasies with me and another girl.
2007-01-26 06:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even consider it! I'm not sharing my husband, I find other thing to spice up our relationship.
2007-01-26 09:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Husband asked, I got curious thought maybe it would be a good idea but then chickened out.
2007-01-26 05:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No way!!
Marriage is a sacred institution between TWO people!
2007-01-26 06:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by TINY822 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd never do that. And if my husband asked such a thing, I'd probably shoot him.
2007-01-26 06:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are a swinging couple and we have done this before, one rule you should have is no open mouth kissing between your hubby and her, also maybe you want to let him know that there will be no hanky panky going on unless your with them , umm let me see, just be sure that you are both with the other woman and don't leave your hubby and her alone, good luck .
2007-01-26 05:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by mistyriver69 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋