Cash!
2007-01-25 21:53:40
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answered by Anonymous
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That depends...do you have children? Does your wife work outside the home? How much do you contribute to child rearing, cleaning the home, helping to pay the bills, etc? Has she been ill recently? Is she a new mom? These questions can all influence "in the mood". If your wife is a stay-at-home mom, she may not say, but might be feeling like the live in maid and babysitter. That can make a woman's libido go on vacation, BIG TIME! Make some time for the two of you; help her clean up, make dinner. If these situations are not part of the problem, your wife may need to get a full physical checkup. Sometimes physical issues keep a woman's libido down; medical intervention may be necessary. Lastly...ahem...how is your "technique" in the bedroom? Is there foreplay? Cuddling and kind laughter? A lot of intimacy? If it's all about your pleasure, that is a big turnoff for women. Men can have an orgasm faster than women; we are like Toyota engines. It may take a little more work to get the engine going, but when it's working, it purrs like a kitten! If all of this is not working, consider marital counseling; there may be some issues and resentments that are keeping her from wanting sex. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-25 22:48:34
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answered by Judy W 3
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I agree with elite women, while she's out, clean the house. Then take her out for a nice romantic dinner. Do something that reminds her of when you two first met, or the early part of your relationship. Seduce her.
If, however, this fails, then you've got a serious problem. Most women just need a romantic night out with enough attention to "put them in the mood". Have you two been communicating well enough lately? Are there any health issues? I don't know how old your wife is, or how long you've been together, and those are factors in determining the cause of lack of "in the mood". Try the above romantic suggestions. If that doesn't work, sit her down and ask why she hasn't been in the mood. (stress? health? boredom?) If she is not forthcoming, or you discover a larger problem, I recommend marriage counseling. (Perhaps with Viagra for her.)
2007-01-25 22:35:47
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answered by newinfiniteabyss 3
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I like notes. Leave little notes around the house for her. Put a note on the fridge. Write a note on the mirror in the bathroom for her to see when she's getting ready for work. Notes are easy and very thoughtful. She'll eventually get the hint that your on to something and it def make her appreciate you! That's a start. You don't have to turn into Mr. Clean to have sum good loving. Think of the little things. They make the biggest difference.
2007-01-26 02:58:57
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answered by punky brewster 3
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its the small things that count
do little things like massage,run a hot tub
take her out to her favorite restraunt.
help around the house is always great sat my love helps me out around the house 4 hands are better then 2 we get all the chores done and he says ok your day what do you want to do its great
2007-01-25 22:20:41
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answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6
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Did you ever tried using Pull Your Ex Back technique? Try on this website : http://www.ExRecoveryFormula.com . It may probably support anybody!
2014-08-18 09:25:24
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answered by Anonymous
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try listening to the things she says she needs or wants from you outside of the bedroom-then do them without complaint,or acting as if you are doing it to get what you want. then do something out of your character for her and wait for her to make the first move
2007-01-25 22:32:24
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answered by IZZY 1
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Give her a nice erotic massage
2007-01-25 21:56:27
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answered by ? 3
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Communication is the way... really then go down on her...
2007-01-25 22:40:48
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answered by Anonymous
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try talking to her.............
2007-01-25 21:55:30
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answered by troble # one? 7
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