till date 12 boys at my school like me n a few out of them have proposed me too but i dun wnna be in a relationship at this age.i am only 13.some of them r really in love wid me.....dat i know but some r jus' attracted towards my face n features.a few boys hav even made a bet wid their frds that they'll impress me n whatever.i wnna make my reputation in school as a cool but single girl.i think all this is affecting my studies n im very much disturbed.tell me plzzz wht shud i do???but i can't dress up shabbily to avoid them.i really dun know what to do........plzz if u can then answer my question afterall this is affecting my future.
2007-01-25 21:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whoa crazy teenaged hormones! Its not affecting your future. You will laugh about this in five years.
Don't feel under pressure if you don't want to date, then don't.
2007-01-25 21:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jess O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age I was presured be boys as well although I like the attention and them as well I wasn't readey to get involved with them because I knew what they were after and I wasn't ready to give it up like the rest of my friends were at the time so I made up a lie that I was already dating someone whom was three year older that me who at the time would have been in high school so no one could verify my story and it gave the impression to others that I was into much older and mature boys in which they couldn't measure up...
I pulled that off for three years until I was ready to date and it work! when I went to partied I would say he had to work so he couldn't make it. Trying to tell them your not interested will only lead them to hounding you more because they think that they can break you... Your boyfreind doesn't has to be older he coild from another school but just knowing that you have one will slow em down some but they want give up!
2007-01-25 21:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, yes its really to early for u to hv a special bf. But i knw its not easy to say no too. All the boys will think that u kinda egoist, nerdy. The way to say no is by, telling him the truth. You right now, juz want to be you, single and availabe with anyone. Juz tell them, YES , u like to take them as a friends. Let them impress you, its fine, and you too hv to appreciate it. Thats the way of being a good friends. Dont think too much of this prb, is juz a fact of life that u have to go tru, everybody is going to this lane too, juz the way how u handle it thats matters. Tackle this problem nicely,talk to them nicely too. They will treat u nicely too, then.
2007-01-25 21:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to them and talk simply and propose them to be your brothers. Believe me this is the most simplest way to avoid such situations. No brother ever thinks any thing bad about their sisters' (real or cousin or so called sister). Try it.........your problem will solve.
2007-01-25 22:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them no or blow them off. If you are not dating them then there is no way it can actually be affecting your studies. In stead of talking on the phone to them everynight set aside time for you to do your homework
2007-01-25 21:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it grow to be very irresponsible of you confident. however the actuality to hand is there might desire to be existence on your physique, i had my son while i grow to be 17 and that grow to be annoying as hell i had to artwork and pass to college i rarley observed my son for 9 months, i'm 21 now and my existence remains up and down, i cant do something i cant pass out i propose as quickly as you have a toddler your finished youthful grownup existence is over please attempt to comprehend that iam no longer judging you in any respect have faith me, i think for you, i think of you ought to do in spite of you soul tells you, and in spite of path it is going there is often desire on the top of the tunnle in case you dont prefer to abort undertake and in case you prefer to maintain then get ur yet to college asap end pass to college make the daddy do the comparable and god be with u on your journey yet in addition say good by way of to each and all of the flaws u ever concept u might do for relaxing
2016-09-28 00:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply tell them to BACK OFF...
its not like your gonna die if you say that...
and if they wanna get your attention, fine!
let them do stupid things and just ignore them...
your givin attention to them thats why they are motivated to do more things...
and you dont have to change yourself for them to avoid you...
just dont pay attention to them and in a week or so, they will be all gone... you must be really flattered if many boys like you eh? childish act ^.~
2007-01-25 21:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be frank and tell them to leave you alone, tell them you don't want to go out with them..that you want to concentrate in your studies and nothing else..if they don't stop harassing you, get the help of some friends (elder friends if necessary) to talk to them and make them understand what you want...
2007-01-25 21:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, always be true to yourself.
School is for getting your education.
Put your mind to that.
Boys/ Men, can come later.
2007-01-25 21:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋