if you break up wit a 3 yrs bf 4 month ago ,
and now he come back to you, and wan to marry you..
do u think is a lie? or how can i Test him wat he said is ReaL?
2007-01-25 20:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by Giselle 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Why did you break up with him?
What has he done to change himself since then?
What have you done to change yourself?
What has changed that might make you believe it will work this time?
Take the time to evaluate what you and he both want and what bothers you both. Talk about why you broke up and what is different. And if things feel good, give it another try. Life is short and the meaning of life is BE HAPPY
2007-01-25 21:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by shovelkicker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not test him with a 2-3 year engagement? Live together and then decide if marriage is for you before you take that plunge. Sometimes living together will be all of the proof you need whether you are meant to be together or not. I most definately would not marry someone that I would fear would leave again. Divorce is alot more expensive and traumatic than marriage.
2007-01-26 05:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who broke up with who?
If he broke up with you , then I agree with Dean. He wanted to play with field for a while see what was out there didn't find anything better so he came back to you. I think if he wanted to marry you for real, then he would have asked 4months ago instead of breaking up. Starting the relationship back up is somewhat OK but not to get engaged with him. Not yet.
OR
maybe he just wanted some time to think, if he is ready to commit to you and decided that he does want to marry you.
I honestly would just give it a trial and see how things go, before getting engaged. Have a talk with him.
2007-01-26 05:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by +No longer a Yahoo answerer+ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a good relationship before you broke up? Did you miss him? How did you feel while you had been broken up? What did he do for the 4 months? Why did he break up with you or you break up with him? Why does he want to come back to you? Do YOU believe him?
Sort it out and you decide. Don't use wishful thinking. If it all adds up to a yes decision ....go for it. If no, tell him no and move on with your life. Don't go or look back anymore.
2007-01-26 05:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing with my boyfriend. I never realized what a good thing I had until it was gone. We got back together again and now we're happier than ever. I can't wait to be his wife. It took a year of trying to prove myself before he asked me to marry him. So I suggest waiting awhile and let him show you that he changed before you make a serious commitment. Good Luck
2007-01-26 05:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a good long relationship. After the break-up, he probably realized that he truly wants you in his life.
I suppose the decision is yours.
Best of luck to you, whatever you decide!
2007-01-26 05:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by willow oak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think wathever is a lie or not he is tring to play with you.
If is true, he can't do that, he can't just come back and marry you, you are not an object that should happen when YOU want not when he wants... so he is playing with you.
If it's a lie....WTF! what is he specting!
Don't test him just think if you want to be your whole life with a man that confuse....
God Bless you!
2007-01-26 05:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by N.T. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's played the field found nothing better than you and hey presto wants to marry you (your call)
2007-01-26 05:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by dean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋