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i masterbate a lot.i am worried if its ......u know..........if u r male u can understand well..........but help me...

2007-01-25 20:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Mayur 2 in Health Men's Health

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READ THIS :- Masturbation. Most people do it — yet so many people worry about doing it! That's because there are a lot of myths out there that masturbation is dirty, dangerous, or something to be embarrassed about doing. But the truth is, masturbation is safe and healthy, and it's here to stay. People of all ages do it. Guys do it, and girls do it too. Single people and people in relationships do it. Some people do it a few times a day, and some do it a few times a year. Let's get to the bottom of some of the masturbation myths that make people so anxious about being caught red-handed.

Myth #1: Masturbation is unhealthy.

Maybe you've heard that masturbation makes you blind or damages your sex organs. This couldn't be further from the truth. Masturbation is not physically harmful in any way. In fact, it has a number of physical and mental health benefits — here are just a few:


Masturbation releases stress and physical tension. Many people masturbate to relax, and it can help some people fall asleep.


Orgasms — whether they're from masturbation or sex play with a partner — can act as a natural painkiller. One study from 2001 found that orgasm can ease migraines faster than medication. Some women masturbate to relieve menstrual cramps. Research has also shown that orgasms may even prevent endometriosis, a disease of the uterine lining.


One recent study found that frequent ejaculation from masturbating may reduce a man's chances of developing prostate cancer.
Plus, masturbation is the ultimate form of safer sex — there is no risk of pregnancy or infection.

Myth #2: Only people who can't "get any" masturbate.

Here's an interesting fact — people who have regular sex partners actually masturbate more often than those who don't. Some people are concerned when they find out their partners masturbate — they wonder, "Why would someone masturbate when they could just have sex? Does this mean that my partner isn't attracted to me?" But many people — both in relationships and single — masturbate when their partners are unavailable. Some use masturbation as a kind of "dress rehearsal," to learn more about what they find pleasurable. People can learn about their bodies through masturbating, and this can help them communicate better with their partners about what they enjoy sexually.

Myth #3: Girls don't masturbate.

Some people think that it's OK for guys to masturbate and have sex, but that girls shouldn't. Unfortunately, our society is often more comfortable with men expressing their sexuality than with women, so many girls are taught not to masturbate — or not to admit to doing it. But the truth is, girls and women do masturbate, and there's no reason they shouldn't. In fact, one study showed that women who masturbate have higher self-esteem than those who don't.

Myth #4: It's bad to masturbate every day.

Some people masturbate every day — or even more than once a day. That's fine. So is there such a thing as "too much" masturbation? According to counselors, it's only when masturbation gets in the way of daily activities — like going to school or work, or meeting friends — that it would be considered "too much." And not many people have that problem. Also, some people worry that masturbating frequently will affect a girl's fertility or a guy's ability to produce sperm. It doesn't. A guy may find that he has less volume of semen if he ejaculates frequently, and his semen may contain less sperm. But that doesn't mean that his sperm count will be reduced in the future. The testicles produce and store sperm beginning at puberty, and sperm production continues through most of adult life.

So forget those rumors of hairy palms and shrinking penises. Masturbation is a safe and healthy way to relieve sexual tension, explore our sexuality, and discover what feels good. Let's give ourselves a hand — or two!

2007-01-26 17:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0 0

The cause I would say is a high sex drive, I would do it before and after sex. Sometimes two or three times a day, Even when I knew I was about to have sex. But I found it will dry you out by the age of 45 give or take a few years. So if you want to be still spitting out sperm when your 50 slow it down. Cause you'll be shooting blanks. Which give you the feeling like your cumming but nothing will come out.

2007-01-25 21:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by loveableken 2 · 0 0

dear friend,you have raised a good question many boys fase this problem,and stay confused about what to do,first of all you should know that we humanbeings have different craving for sex,some want it ones in a month ,some wants it ones in a week,
and some wants it ones in a day,ones in a week is normal,but if your brains want s it more then that,first of all your diet must be proper or masturbating will start effecting you health.i think you must be indulging in watching or listing or talking about sex daily,that is why your brain starts demanding more and more,one thing making some thing a habit is easy but be ware when its time to give up it is not easy,it is just like getting used to smoking drinking or drugs the only difference is that no body can see you masturbating,but it will have ill effects to the body like any other abuse,if it is realy tough to bring the habit under control please seek help from psychologist.

2007-01-25 23:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by toploser 5 · 0 0

Only effect you would get is, Feeling sleepy all the time. And imagining more about fantasies all the day. Although your body would not get any harm other than described above, but your life style will sure suffer in long run.

As it is pretty obvious if you starts thinking in one side more and more you loose the another side.

2007-01-25 21:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ajeet S 5 · 0 0

In the first place growth of the organ will get stunted. In the second place, you will knees will become weak. In the third place this will affect your eye sight. So go ahead and do the masturbation as much as you want to kill yourself slowly. Why can't get mattried if you are not already.

2007-01-25 21:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I don't know how old you are, in the teens and early twenties as boys get curious about their body, its natural they masturbate and there is no specification about the exact number of masturbation your body knows the best but if you feel that you are excursively masturbating you need to divert r energy.
there is no harm in masturbating where as it shows that you are healthy sexually. but as you know too much of anything is not good
if you think that you cannot help yourself in reducing the number don't hesitate to consult a counsellor
take care

2007-01-25 22:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sajan M 2 · 0 0

You are at a sexual peak and have lots of testosterone...let it all out...you will eventually get 'bored' of it. Don't worry too much as everyone, myself included, has the same experience

2007-01-25 21:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is nothing like excess masturbation.If your body limit is exceeded ,it will just stop getting stimulated by you.

2007-01-25 20:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by vanpandy 4 · 0 0

What are you worried about? Everyone masturbates. You have nothing in the world to worry for. Do it as often as you like.

2007-01-26 00:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

there is no excess masturbation , ma y be you are thing of it too much

2007-01-25 23:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by unknown idiot 1 · 0 0

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