What will you do if you boyfriend tells you that what if when u guys get older he still love you very much but he may not be atractive to you anymore?????I mean..when u reach the age of 50 and he tells you hes not atractive to u anymore..even if he still love you very much..WHAT WILL U DO..OR SAY?
2007-01-25 20:37:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off, if I'm still his girlfriend at 50 years old I should be shot and put out of his misery.
If my husband was to come home and tell me he isn't attracted to me anymore I would let him go and find what he wants.
I've learned that you cannot control another person nor can you make someone love you. You have to accept what they want and where their life is taking them and wish them the best. It's the hardest thing you will ever have to do, but setting someone free is the most giving and selfless thing, you will be blessed.
2007-01-25 20:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like this. When 2 people first start dating, they have fun together, they laugh, and do whatever it is that new dating couples do.
When you get married, and stay married forever...how can I say this in a nice way, I've been told that men become less attracted to their wives because of weight gain. Men go through a mid-life crisis. Meaning they know they're getting old and don't like it. Men will always look at other women, no matter what, It's their nature. Some couples grow apart and some stay together because of the kids.
My husband always tells me how pretty I am and he's still attracted to me.
Maybe your boyfriend doesn't deserve you. Maybe that's his way of telling you he might cheat on you when he is no longer attracted to you. Either way, it wasn't a nice thing for him to say to you.
2007-01-25 20:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by GreenIce10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully he's the type to make an attempt at practicality. maybes he's saying that when you're fifty, you're gonna look all proony and wrinkly, and that with his current vision/youth, he would be much more attracted to you're beautifully slim figure and smooth skin (at least compared to when you're older) than when you're old. honestly, this should not be a good sign. its a bad sign. it says he really isn't in love with you. see...i love my girl...and if she gained 2 hundred pounds within the next fifty years (cuz we're staying together forever cuz she said yea when i propose =-) ) then i would purposely gain 2 hundred and ten pounds over the same amount of years, because im promising her for better or for worse. but worse doesn't mean weight or appearance. i think this means your guy is a little shallow...to be honest. talk to him...see if he sees anything past the point when adults gain weight. lost/keep him according to that serious talk...
2007-01-25 21:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like he could easily have a fling, but stay with you because you've been together so long. What he's saying is he loves you but he's not in love with you if that makes since. In other words, he's with you cause he don't want to be alone. Sorry but it's the truth if you are madly in love with someone there is always at least a small attraction
2007-01-25 20:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know that when you're 50 he still won't find you attractive? I am told as you get older your taste changes, so when you're 50 he may well find that you're the fox you are now.
2007-01-25 20:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not do much if you have already reached 50 years of age and then it really doe's not matter if you look great or not. enjoy until that.
2007-01-25 20:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some sexy clothes and make yourself really seductive to him.. he wont be able to resist you, if it involves sex..
but if he still doesnt find you attractive.. well then hes got problems because when you get older you start to look older and so does he.. maybe he'll reliease that your still beauitful if he looks just as old too
2007-01-25 20:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by tickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attractive or attracted? if i'm not attractive or he's not attracted then its over. however i think if your with someone for years and years you don't see them get old, in your eyes they will always stay beautiful and you'll always see the young person you fell in love with.
2007-01-25 20:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the way you spell...possible grammar issues? Kidding..no really.
2007-01-26 14:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by croaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of you are gonna be very attractive when you're old, wrinkled and saggy.
2007-01-25 20:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by blob888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋