nstead he buys her clothes.this is cheating is it?but husband doesn't own up to his actions.claims she is just his friend.what should I do?
2007-01-25 20:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by anol b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seriously. this is wrong. he vowed to you. that means he promised everything to you, that he was going to give you what he wanted. why is he giving this girl anything close to what she wants? because he's a nice guy? bull. nice guys follow their heart first and know its wrong to pull shhit like this. he's interested in her, which means he's not 100% interested in you, which means the marriage is faulty. i say you're in for a wild ride, and you need to quit it before you puke. if you don't, you'll swallow you're own stomach acids and feel a million times worse. seriously. this is not cool at all. talk to him, and be like...what the ***...most of me says don't give him a chance, but i was cursed with a kind heart. so i say talk to him before you divorce him...
2007-01-25 20:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding actions...justifying new female friends and gifts....adds up to dishonesty. Find a handsome or otherwise worthy competitive friend that admires you. Pay this masculine person more attention. Say nothing more about the "girl"...spend money on yourself, clothes, hair, nails, etc....look good....then spend minimal on something questionable on something for a meal for this Professsor, Doctor, etc. and tell your spouse you have a inovative financial/business/interview offer with "Joe Successfull" that you are greatly impressed with. You expect the conference to go well and positive results to make your world come out of the closet. When He sees that you are too secure for the petty stuff he is pulling...he may need to worry about your schedule instead of this chick . The more self confident and secure your are... the more insecure he will be with your security. Look good...Be confident...Take charge....Make changes. Be more mature. Maybe you need someone who will be better to you. Good luck.
2007-01-25 21:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by PFace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is jacked up. You know he's slept with her too. I mean she asked for a ring and got a brand new wardrobe. You better kick this guy out on the curb. And I'd defentily withdrawl all the money out of the bank he can't buy some other ***** clothes
2007-01-25 21:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a friend whatever.if she knows he`s married it`s even worse.who knows if it`s only clothes he`s giving her.i mean it might be innocent but to me it sounds like it could go further quickly.first of i were you i would sit down with your husband and talk about.don`t accuse him of cheating because then he`ll get offensive.but make it clear to him that this is inappropriate and hurts you.also if u can track down that girl and talk to her.sometimes it`s better two have another one`s side of the story.make clear to her to stay away from your husband.i mean come on especially if u know somebody is involved with someone u don`t do that.it`s disrespectful.
2007-01-25 20:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Snowflake♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes this is prepping him to cheat. I would leave before it gets bad because if he is willing to meet with her and buy her things its only a matter of time and he isn't going to own up to it because that would be admitting he is wrong.
2007-01-25 22:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, huge time dishonest. merely because you have not bodily executed some thing with this stranger of a women human beings, would not recommend what you're doing isn't dishonest. This woman needs your wallet no longer your love. is this properly worth dropping your spouse??
2016-12-03 01:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord honey, "he meets her?" is enough to set his head on fire. Tell him he owns "his friend" now and walk till you can't walk no more....IF I let my husband live..and I do mean "IF" he would regret the day he ever pulled this crap on me...seriously.
There are some things that are unacceptable and ...this is one.
2007-01-25 20:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIAMOND RING?!?!?!?!
How did you find out all this?
clothes, ring...sex
whatever he gives her is wrong...period
what should you do? - take the dog for a walk in the park, unleash him and let him go!!!
2007-01-25 20:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by mommyseldest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not stand for that. You have friends do you buy them clothes etc,,,,,, That's is bad intensions, he's courting her YES THAT IS CHEATING OR WILL BE
2007-01-26 01:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him but you don't love him, then tell him to buy you a bigger diamond and that you want to show it to your new boyfriend.
2007-01-25 21:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋