its in my mind I want aboyfriend ,but I want a girl friend, but i want a boyfriend and its becoming a problem to be honest I want to marry a man but the ideal of marrying a man scares or bothers me abit some times cause im afraid I will never get to expenice more with agirl then I have or that i will never get the chance to date a girl but I dont even know if i want to date a girl and i never meet bi women as far as i know and Im not brave enought to go to a gay/lesbain bar and Im afraid that if I dated a girl I wouldnt be able to get friends and that people in my family would judge me and I would feel weird but in a way being bi would make me happer. long while back I woke up a few mornings earated cause I wanted to be bisexual and felt like I wasnt . long time ago when I went to a doctor for something I told her I wanted to be bi but i knew she couldnt do anything about it but anyway she told me u must have some feelings about it to want to be so what did she mean by that
2007-01-25 19:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh my gosh, I could not even read through your whole question.
2007-01-25 20:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you dont know what kind of relationship you want, you need to find out. You mention getting married, but if you are this confused, you cant honestly enter into a relationship as serious as that. I think you are letting it be more difficult than it has to be. There are alot of women who are bi or bi curious, they just dont advertise. I can suggest a few courses of action. 1) go to a strip bar, alone, with friends, with a guy, doesnt matter. 2) If you are dating a guy, bring up the idea of a 3some. All you have to do is say you heard most guys fantasize about having 2 women, you dont even have to admit interest until you see his reaction. 3) check out a swingers club in your area. They are usually very discrete and often will have days when singles, especially women, are allowed.
These things would give you an opportunity to get more experience and give you more to base your decision on, whether you want to be bi or not. One thing tho, being bi doesnt involve 'coming out' like being lesbian does. Dont worry about people judging you, its none of their business.
You just need to learn what YOU want, then go for it.
2007-01-25 20:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Thunderstruck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then perhaps you shouldn't walk round consisting of your age stuck on your forehead. Why do you extra often than not placed up on Y!A? Do you actually imagine any of your memories are conceivable? What 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous has 4 children? What 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous is able to purchase a house? a lot of adults are unable to have the funds for a house. i really doubt someone without college preparation or a strong career is able to purchase a house at the same time as feeding 4 children. you want help? attempt considering a extra unique tale earlier you ask a question lower back. i have considered like 30 of your charges.
2016-12-03 01:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to be something you have to truly want to be that way, well in this situation its kind of different because in order to be bi you have to have some type of an attraction to females. I myself was confusesd about what i wanted to do with my life and weather or not i wanted to spend the rest of it with a girl or not so you know what i did? i took the chance at dating a girl to see if i liked it or not and i told her i wasnt sure about it and she went along with me and well its been 2 months and we are still together and well i am more happy then i could ever be so all i can say for is take a chance and see if its what you wnat if it turns out its not what you want then dont do it anymore.
2007-01-26 02:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by ashers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really! There are no hard and fast rules to being a bisexual. Many find the person that they fall in love with and are faithful to them - BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEM.
Others have open or polyamorous relationships and enjoy being with both genders.
As long as everyone involved knows where they stand with you, there is nothing preventing you from fully exploring your sexuality.
Stop dwelling on what you want and go out there and get it!
Good Luck!
2007-01-25 22:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the gay center so you can talk to someone. You didn't mention your age but you seem really confused. You have way too many issues to get involved with anyone right now. Relax and talk to people. Hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself. -- men or women. You'll discover who rocks your world.
2007-02-01 14:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have a girlfriend that you can have fun with her and in the same time you might get married to a man too.each one of them will give you a completely different feelings that you will never found in one person.
2007-01-25 23:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by tito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want both? Maybe give polygamy a chance.
2007-01-26 18:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TMI and I'm not gonna read all that.
good luck!
2007-01-25 23:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋