How can you deal with someone who is like this?
2007-01-25 19:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have them go to therapy. they may have a mental illness. i know thats how i found out about my mental illnesses. but karma is funny like that.
2007-01-25 19:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave. Now. Sadly, this person is deeply insecure and controlling. This relationship can only get more abusive; leave the person, get a restraining order, and move on with your life. In the United States, the leading cause of non-illness death in Louisiana for women is domestic abuse. There is something horribly wrong with this. Whether a man or a woman, you are not a possession, unworthy of being loved, or a doormat. If your partner can't treat you with courtesy, respect and love, leave. If you are concerned about how to live without that person, get your education. Go to college and get your degree. Seek out social services, even if you are a man (there is no shame in asking for help; don't let ANYONE make you think there is). Move out, move on and take charge of your life. If your partner threatens violence, get a restraining order and have police escort when you get your things to leave. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-26 07:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people who are jealous ansd abusive have low self esteem and thay make thamselves feel better and badder by abusing and hurting others who are weaker than them. If I were you, I would stop trying to deal with him and move on with your life. You deserve to be treated better than this. You don't have to put up with it.If you stay with someone like this, you are going to have nothing but heartache and maybe something much worse if he has a bad temper.He need help with anger management and only he can decide to take those steps to get some help. Keep yourself safe and end this relationship now. Good luck.
2007-01-26 06:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic signs they are probably having an affair on the side, and there is no excuse for abuse...........Leave before it becomes too bad and find someone who appreciates and loves you.
2007-01-26 08:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out now. Why do you want to put up with it.
2007-01-26 04:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classics signs your getting cheated on.......
2007-01-26 03:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋