Im 14 yrs old and ive never had a boyfriend.
recently, ive met this boy.... And i m going crazy about him.
i didn't read a lot of romance novels- until he showed up. now all im looking at is romance novels, and im trying to use those books as love lessons or something. Im really nervous when he's around, and whenever i do something stupid, i think "s***! I just blew my chance to get him to like me!"
Is this ... NORMAL??
Ive had a lot of crushes, but nothing as intense as this. AND I'VE MET HIM ONLY ABOUT 6 TIMES!!
and what's worst?
he's moving to another country this summer.
should i try to stop liking him because it's just "puppy love" that will end quickly or should i just tell him i like him?
advice, please :(
-mad w/ love-
2007-01-25 19:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I'm a 36 year old man and can only offer this...
even though I'll never know what a 14 year old girl goes through, this sounds like natural, human feelings and love. Go with it, but take it for what it's worth. Enjoy the feeling and go with your fantasies but don't let it carry your life. Don't expect more than he tells you, interact with this "true" feeling even if you get disappointed, at least you tried. NEVER, EVER ASSUME ANYTHING! Go with your heart and in the end either way you will be content. Remember, things happen for a reason we live, learn, and hopefully love the journey at least.
2007-01-25 20:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its that strong, go n tell him. its a gamble, but its better than not doing anything about it and beating ur self up about it later. I'd suggest u start by just having a conversation with him, see if he likes in anyway, and if U like him (if he is what you thought he would be).
then ask him out somewhere! then u'll can probably decide if u wanna tell him or not. if it turns out good, then congrats, if its bad, dont worry, have a good cry and move on. we're cant be everybody's cup of tea..
and of course, in the end u are the most important person to urself. take care of ur self, stick to your principles. dont compromise them just because of some boy. coz love makes us do stupid things sometimes...!
2007-01-26 04:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by imwhy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it,s sad that he,s movie to a new country because long disance never work maybe you can keep in thought thought the cumputer and writting letters right guy wrong time be friend but find love some were else.hart brake hotel,maybe some other time in life.
2007-01-26 03:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal u like da guy but if hes moving in da summer dem u shoulnt get to attach it cud hurt u at da en wen it comes to say goodbye
2007-01-26 03:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by latingrl91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋