This is part 2 to the question I just asked. This women he is talking to lives less than 10 minutes from where we live. He tells her when i work and when i dont. he has told her about where we live at. he only talks to her when i am not around. The reason i know what he says to her is because he gave me his password to the place he talks to her at and he thinks he has deleted all the messages but in fact they are in the trash folder. he says he dont have anything to hide. If he isnt hiding it then why only talk to her when i am not around or when i am in bed?
2007-01-25 19:49:14 · 12 answers · asked by sgtswife25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's either cheating or preparing to cheat on you.
2007-01-25 19:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is lying to you! I would not tolerate for one moment my husband talking about sex with another woman who lives 10 minutes away or 10 thousand miles away. That is unacceptable behavior in a marriage, and you shouldn't put up with it.
If he's told her where he lives and what hours you're not home, then he is planning on cheating! There is absolutely NO other reason to tell her those details. Any excuse he gives you otherwise is just a flat out lie. Don't let him pull the wool over your eyes! He is only waiting for this other woman to agree to meet him.
As his wife you have every right to demand that he stop communicating with this other woman. I would print out the messages he thinks he has deleted and show them to him. He can't deny proof! If he loves you like he says he does, then he will stop talking to her and won't worry about this other woman's feelings - and why should he if he's innocent? And don't you dare let him make you feel guilty for snooping or not trusting him. He gave you the password himself, and he's given you ample reason to be suspicious him.
2007-01-25 21:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one that is hiding something is going to admit it, the fact that he gave you the password does somewhat show that he doesn't but then again he could just be an idiot. If you read the messages and there was nothing in them why ask this question? If you don't trust what he says you shouldn't be with him anyway. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 19:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are the signs that say the guy is an *** and he doesn't deserve you. it sux...but it'll suck WAY worse if you hold on. UNLESS you talk to him first...which is definately the thing i would do. please talk to him, tell him you feel that he's cheating on you...cuz even though you didn't include that in your question...i know thats what you're thinking. tell him that. if he can't deal...you know whats up. get rid of him. if he convinces you that he's good...keep track at whats going on. any more signs pop up...you were better off not even giving him the chance. it might make you seem like a *****, but whats a relationship that has only one side? the word relationship comes from the word relation which means a guy and a girl relate, more specifically in monogamy...which is what he's obviously not doing. you wouldn't be in the wrong breaking up with him because of this. if he doesnt' change after you talk to him...you don't change for him. thats it...
2007-01-25 20:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your screen name I am guess you are a military wife, as am I. This is classic military BS. I would put an end to the nonsense and print out copies of the emails and see if there are calls made to her and print those out. Confront your hubby and if he still holds his ground I would just walk away. I have been through this with my first husband and he made it sound so innocent but guess what? He was fooling around.
2007-01-25 22:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's playing around.....the justification would be giving u the password and manipulating your mind in thinking he's cheating, while he's really talking to his cousin who is posing as this ficticious person so when u read the trash files which he left in there on purpose, u would be super duper pissed off. This is just a percentaged opinion of mine. Good day!
2007-01-25 19:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mike4rmtheO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
humorous, yet you left out the area the position a lady can get her hair executed dress up and each and every thing and the guy wont even word :P. LOL plus woman dont dress up for answering the phone or gardening LOL...apart from the different 2 strong pastime stars for you! bypass examine my funny tale now lol -christina xoxox
2016-12-03 01:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear,
I would be very suspicious of this relationship. It seems to me that they either met offline or one of them purposefully found the other in your neighborhood in order to pursue something offline.
I feel terrible for you. Honestly, a women's intuition is her best guide. If you think he is cheating, then he probably is.
Bless you!
2007-01-25 20:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by TheAnswerChicks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let the doubts grow in your mind. get all your doubts clarified by him. if he gives you an escaping an answer you would know by your common sence.
even if you conform the doubt to be fact. just let him know that you are unhappy and leave him. it will nag him and he would come out of it eventually. rather if you pester him he is sure to go deep in to it. may the god bless you. bye.
2007-01-25 20:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can read what he says to her online...then u know what he is hiding...might wanna take a look at his phone and see if he is calling her...cuz if u know what he is telling her online...u might want to know if he is going to go see her
2007-01-25 20:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by fyre_fyter2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋