In spite of being married and having kids
2007-01-25 18:12:16 · 14 answers · asked by sans_rival310 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Bisexuals are people who are intimate with males and females. Sometimes a person can feel attracted to both but is very happy just being with one person. THAT doesn't make them bi. But sometimes a person feels a strong attraction to both and must be with both. Being married and having kids has nothing to do with it. If the urges to live a bisexual life are that strong, then that person is going to do it. The way I see it, if you like men a little and love women a LOT and you'll never be with men, then you aren't really bi unless you DO something about it. Some people are not very interested in both and some are, and the ones who take action are truly bisexual.
Humans are sexual beings, so I think it's wrong to base it all on what we find sexually appealing. It's all about what we DO and how we live. If you like football but you don't play, you can't call yourself a football player! Sorry, but that's it.
2007-01-25 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is quite possible for a bi sexual person to be married and have kids?
If they have relationships and yes even sex with members of both sexes then the possiblity of pregancy is always there.
And there is no reason why if they fall in love they can't get married?
Your question doesn't really make a lot of sense.
2007-01-26 02:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by ajtheactress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always were but either denied it or found a person that they loved and wanted to be with to have children.
The sadness is when they cheat on their partner as is true in all relationships. The difference between bisexuals and heterosexual cheats is that a bisexual doesn't care which gender they cheat on their partner with.
2007-01-26 08:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where to start?
Its a fairly drawn out process involving a short length of copper tubing a roll of duct tape three french hens a 9 volt battery 2 mylar balloons and a tuff shed. I dont really have time to get into the details but suffice it to say by the end of it all you have some very confused hens
2007-01-26 04:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by blakey383 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really "becoming bisexual". I believe (and so do many others) that your sexuality is defined at birth in your DNA. A lot of people (you'd be surprised how many) suppress their true feelings, which are later revealed and they themselves freak out about it too. Then they realize that they really are gay/bi/lesbian or whatever they are and there's really nothing they can do about it. If you ask anyone that's gay (except for a few people who you can tell are just stupid by talking to them), they will tell you that it's not a choice. I myself tried to change, just to realize that you can't.
2007-01-26 03:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess either the person is really gay, and just never was able to admit to it, or he/she is just experimenting with sex...maybe never had the chance before getting married. This might be just a way to try to get attention from someone 'cause they don't get it in the marriage???
2007-01-26 02:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by avechm 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have an attraction to the same sex, you may have been denying all this time. There is nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-26 10:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably had those tendencies all along but tried to repress them or override them due to social stigmas or other beliefs.
2007-01-26 02:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
They didn't "become" that way. They are just finally realizing and/or admitting it.
2007-01-26 02:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Alias400 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they don't become bisexual, you can't become, is something that you just are. you cant really decided, is feelings.
2007-01-26 02:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋